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Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 6:44 am

My wife just got back from the grocery store and while she was there, a guy in line hit on her. It doesn't make me jealous or anything; I know that my wife is beautiful and I expect her to get attention from other men. But the first clue that she was married should have been the giant rock on her finger. So he was either kinda dense and non-observant or he just didn't care. I know that there are some guys out there that won't let a wedding ring stop them from flirting with a pretty woman.

So here's my question:

When you see an attractive woman, do you first look for a wedding ring or do you not care?

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 6:47 am

Don't know why but I always do.
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 6:48 am

Well, sometimes I act more flirty around guys I know I can't have because I'm just being silly. Perhaps the guy wasn't serious. I don't know specifically what he said.
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 6:50 am

Hey Sophie, are you wearing one?  Big grin
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 8:26 am

I'd never hit on a married woman...oh, wait...I'M married! I guess I wouldn't hit on any woman. DOH!
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 8:53 am

I look sometimes, but wouldn't let it get in the way.

People that do get in that situation always seem to put the blame on the other party, as they are to blind to see the wrong doing in their loved one cheating on them, and put all the blame on the other person, when in actual fact it's more the married person that's in the wrong, but I guess it's just easier to blame the other person.

Personally, I don't agree with marriage anyway, I mean why buy a book, when you can borrow it from the library ???.

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 9:48 am

I always look; I know it's not a good idea to hit on married women. God only knows what homocidal neanderthal she has at home.

RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 9:50 am

Yes, I have, by mistake. I've done that a couple times. And when I find out that she's married, I'm usually beside myself with embarrasment, and hoping that the husband isn't going to hunt me down or something.

I'd never hit on a married woman on purpose though. I have way to much respect for marriage itself.

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 10:35 am

Men may flirt with married women but rarely go any further. According to some statistics I read a couple of years ago, the great majority of extramarital affairs, something like 75%, involve married men and single women. Almost all of the rest, but only about one-quarter of all affairs, involve men and women both married to other people. Affairs involving single men and married women are as scarce as hen's teeth.
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 1:43 pm

It goes against my sense of ethics.
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 3:52 pm

There's an old saying..

"Wise Man Say: Just because you've already ordered doesn't mean you can't
look at the menu."

Some women wear rocks (fake ones) to make it LOOK like they are taken, when in fact, they just don't want you to hit on them..

and as for me, I try to look for a rock, but only when I can see her hands  Smile

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 4:31 pm

Matt D will take any guy's big rock, married or not.  Sad


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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 5:09 pm

There's a school of thought that says married women are often an easy target. After a few years of marriage things can get a bit stale and routine. Wives with children spend all their time looking after them and husbands are spending all their time trying to earn a living. What happens is they tend to neglect each other, albeit for the best of reason, and whilst they still love each other loose their spark. So, along comes a good looking young man and he hits on the wife. This hasn't happened for a long time so she is very flattered but wouldn't dream of taking it anywhere. Over a few weeks this carries on and slowly she gets tempted. The guy's not looking for any commitment or complications, he's still making her feel like a woman again and so......... It happens more than you think but they won't say anything because they still love their husbands and children and they regain their senses realising what they stand to lose. So it usually only lasts a couple of weeks and usually no great harm is done.

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 5:20 pm

I hit on chicks if I like them, whether or not they are taken is a minor issue, if you are up to the task you'll get her and if you aren't well what does it matter, flirting is fun.
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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 5:40 pm

I usually look at a woman's rear-end before anything else.  Big grin

I would never ‘intentionally’ go after a married woman but did by accident.
Years ago I was seeing a lady who worked near me. She was really into me and everything.
We had sex once and when we were cuddling I finally noticed the big ring on her finger.
I was shocked and somewhat pissed!
I felt as if I was used as some sort of piece of meat.

I'll never forget her response:
"What he doesn’t know will not hurt him."

She wanted to continue the affair and the sex was great and all but it really bothered me knowing that I slept with a married woman. Her husband made 10 times the amount of money I make and she still wanted me.

She was really hot, nice rear, nice face, great shape and had the sexiest Cajun accent.

I've actually had several married women hit on me and want to have a thing on the side with me. It can really be challenging especially when they are beautiful.

It has made me EXTREMLY cautious about marriage.

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RE: Hitting On Married Women

Mon Aug 05, 2002 11:14 pm

One thing I can say is NEVER hit on the wife of an american police officer. If there is one group of people who can kill you and get away with it no questions asked...

As for the rights & wrongs of it, I do agree that anyone can make an honest mistake (though the credibility of that can be somewhat dubious at times), it is basically in the domain of loser asshole to make a habit of it. I personally have many friends who do this regularly (one even has an ongoing affair with a woman who uses her husbands money to buy him things & pay for expensive holidays), & though I do consider them good friends, no future wife of mine will ever know of their existance, & hopefully vise versa, lol.
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