The queer that "wants everyone to know he's queer" is gonna speak.
Buddy, first of all, I DID NOT, and I repeat, DID NOT decide to be gay. I had no intention of being sexually attracted to men. For you to say that I chose is the same thing for me to say you chose to be straight. Can I ask you something? Say if you were with a woman, and she was sitting on your lap naked, rubbing all up on your junk, kissing you, and all the other things she could do. Can you control your erection? Would you be able to not get hard? Now, say a man did the same thing to you. You probably wouldn't get hard and be turned on, would you? (even if you would you probably wouldn't admit it, but I believe you wouldn't). Anyway, we'll look at me. Say a woman gets naked rubs up on me and performs oral sex on me. I wouldn't be turned on, and I wouldn't get an erection most likely. Now, if a man did that to me, I would be turned on as hell.
My point is, we can't control our sexual attractions. Of course, we could not let ourselves do those things, but we would be bottling up emotions and a possible beautiful relationship with another human. You have every right to post how you feel; however, you have no idea what you are talking about. Why? Because you have never been gay. It's also people like you who make people like me want to kill themselves, harm themselves, or become a social recluse.
I was raised Southern Baptist, one of the most conservative religious organizations in the world, and definitely one of the most conservative in Christianity. I had a very hard time accepting myself as a gay man. However, I know that I'm close to God, and I live my life to the best standards that I humanly can.
What I find insanely crazy is that 'you' think that you have the divine right to tell the world who IS and who ISN't going to hell. Only God can judge that, and for you to put yourself on the level of God is a sin in itself. Same Goes for all those who try to judge others. God is FAR from human comprehension. The Bible was written by humans divinely inspired by Christ. BUT, their human minds, no matter how divinely inspired they were, could never come close to understanding the miracle of God. So, please don't try to equate yourself with God.
Also, it IS interesting, or rather troubling that this bigotry comes from someone who is black. No matter whether you think gay people chose to be gay, or if they didn't, you are prejudice against us because we are different. You know, I can almost bet your aren't catholic. So who do you think the US was settled by? People came here at first because of religious persecution. Most of them being protestant. It was their choice to be protestant. So, with your logic, everyone living in Europe should hate you because you are
Also, you live in a country of tolerance. If you don't like gay people, that's fine and dandy. But you have no right to purposely hurt those who are. If you think you have that right, then I have the right to make you sit at the back of the bus. (which of course I would never do). I can also understand why you say the things you do. I am from the south, but I've been fortunate enough to attend very good, liberal schools. One's that preach tolerance, not hatred. I have come in contact with people from all walks of life. Gay, straight, agnostic, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Jew, Hindu, etc. What I found is that education about people that are different than ourselves should be a number one priorty for any human. From education comes tolerance, and from tolerance comes peace. By your logic, I can somewhat equate you to Hitler and his attitudes towards Jews. You see, people living during that time in Germany and across Europe had a choice to be a Jew. However, it was because of this choice, they were murdered, slain, and kept in concentration camps. They lived through a hell probably none of us can comprehend. But by your logic, you make it alright to hate them because it was their choice to be Jewish.
Your ideals and morals are wrong here my friend. First of all, don't play God, and secondly, don't forget, we are all human, and we are all we have here on this earth until we reach our final destination whether it be north or south.
P.S. Read my post called, "A letter to a former therapist" in the non-aviation forum and see what a hell people like you put gay people through. Then talk to us.
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