klm672
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How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 5:43 am

OK, I had a friend, Luke ask a girl named Jenny if she wanted to go out for ice cream some day with me. I've never met this girl, just passed her in the halls, but everbody knows everybody at RHS (high school). So she says no and I get home and I find that she is online. I added her last night because i talk to Luke all the time online and he gave me her username on yahoo messenget. So I ask her "you don't want to go out for ice cream with me?" she says "I don't think so, sorry". So we get to talking a bit and I tell her that i like planes, and she says that she loves flying and I told her I know a lot about planes. She says she knows some airlines and have been on about 30 flights. Now that is so cool, finally I found someone that likes planes, but she already said "no" on the ice cream date. How do i sorta redeam myself, because she is good looking into sports....and likes planes!

[Edited 2003-06-10 22:52:35]
 
Boeing4ever
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 5:52 am

If she tells you that her parents won't let her date till she's 18, don't believe her. Trust me, I know from experience.

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klm672
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 5:54 am

All she said was simply "No I don't think so" that was BEFORE I knew she liked (kinda) planes.
 
777YYC
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 6:07 am

Man, you really have to do your own dirty work...  Big grin Not the friend-ask-girl-out-for-you routine.
 
desertjets
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 6:12 am

Its redeem.

anyways, keep talking to her. Maybe go out spotting with her. Save the ice cream date for later. Just try to hang out spontaneously. You've found your in, now just work it.
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 6:28 am

Does she know who you are?

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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 7:10 am

Just tell her how you feel - tell her you think she's really interesting and you'd like to get to know her better.

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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 7:20 am

I suggest getting to know her better. Keep chatting with her online, then talk with her more in person. Do not leave out the step of talking to her in person. This way she will never know who the guy behind the monitor really is.

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DeltaRules
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Wed Jun 11, 2003 10:30 am

...and she says that she loves flying.

If only there was a girl like that in my hometown...  Sad

Anyway, follow what the guys have said above. Get to know her better; her thoughts, interests, etc. Just be yourself around her/over Yahoo Messenger & maybe she'll change her mind. Try to (maybe) find a time where you can hang out with her, like at a football game, the mall, or, as mentioned before, go spotting. Maybe bring aviation up sometimes when you talk to her, maybe give her a better "education" into our world or something.

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klm672
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Sun Jun 15, 2003 11:11 am

ok talking to her online, she has a bf now, but i honestly don't think it will last long........ Will keep up the net talking through the summer.
 
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Sun Jun 15, 2003 12:03 pm

"I don't think so, sorry".

That's a very definitive statement. She does not want to go out with you, end of story. You also have nothing to redeem as you did nothing wrong.

Don't waste your time e-mailing her or chatting on line with her. A polite hello when you see her at school is enough. She's not that great, trust me.
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Notar520AC
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Sun Jun 15, 2003 3:19 pm

Play with the words- if she doesn't want to go out for ice cream, bring the ice cream to her.

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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Sun Jun 15, 2003 7:36 pm

Do keep us updated!!!  Smile
 
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Sun Jun 15, 2003 8:39 pm

Don't ask me.
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IMissPiedmont
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Mon Jun 16, 2003 12:06 pm

Notar520AC posted a great thought. Humour is a great icebreaker. Though I stand by my previous post, you have nothing to lose except an ice cream.

Do that. If she laughs, you've got a good chance.
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RE: How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?

Mon Jun 16, 2003 12:45 pm

Perhaps it was more a no to the ice cream rather than to you. Is she lactose-intolerant by any chance? I'd go with Notar's suggestion, though straight up asking her for sex might work. *kidding*

Just go with Notar's suggestion.  Big grin

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