wardialer
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:21 pm

I just got rejected by a girl last night by email and we had made out a bit in her house last week and 3 days after that she emailed me saying this:

""Don?t take this the wrong way, but you and I just aren?t sexually compatible. It?s got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it?s just, I don?t know ? we?re different. Don?t take it the wrong way.""


What does this mean??? Is it my looks that shes not into or what? And not long ago this girl had a BIG crush on me like crazy.

So I want to know what happened why so sudden????

Thanks
 
Dash8King
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:26 pm

??? Is it my looks that shes not into or what? Well you can probably answer that question, are you ugly? Fat, scrawny, buck teeth? Or do woman fall for you constantly?

Perhaps you are a bad kisser?
 
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:29 pm

Girls, you can't live with them and you can't live with them. The only thing predictable about them is their unpredictability. Right now, I just stay out of that game and focus on college, waiting for the perfect girl and I to come together, not a forced thing on either side. As far as the crush goes, maybe that was something in your head, but if it was for real, refer to my first two sentences.
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:34 pm

Well, are you bad at making out? Bad kisser? Did you profess a dislike for either male or female oral activity? Did she? Had she mentioned any kinky streaks that you said you weren't up for, or vice versa?

If she's telling the truth (remember, she's a woman, you might have to dig deeper than what she says), you're probably bad at making out (or should I say you have differing styles?), or you're too sexually repressed for her, or the other way around. The whole sexual compatibility thing just means that she doesn't feel like you could both be satisfied by the other's style of amorous activity.

Then again, you could just be ugly.  Big grin
 
wardialer
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:38 pm

All I want to know is that was she refferring to my looks or what? She saw me at a party 2 weeks ago and she emailed me saying that I was "hot" and "cute"

So then we just chatted for a long time over the net and she was really into it.

So last week, I went her house and we did you know..... and after 3 days she emailed me saying that quote what I wrote.

 
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:45 pm

Well, how would we know? We can't see you. If it isn't "sexual compatibility" that's the issue, it could be any number of things, from the way you look to the way you hum when you pee. Kinda hard for us to say...
 
wardialer
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:51 pm

But what did she mean by "Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY"
 
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 1:54 pm

Well, easy, like she said it's nothing physical because she came to you saying you are hot, you probably didn't stick it to her right, she probably expected some kind of aggresiveness you didn't give her, and more likely than not you suck at kisses.

forget about her, write your loss off to the game
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 2:00 pm

"Then again, you could just be ugly. " lol that was funny hehe


Believe me, I know what your talking about man. I had a girlfriend dump me for...::sigh:: Another girl. I took it in stride and you will too with this latest events.
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 2:33 pm

Well, since you seem really concerned about it, I asked my girlfriend after I picked her up from work. I figured you could use a woman's perspective. What she has to say is this:

It's probably not your looks, you probably just didn't live up to her fantasy of what you would be like. You say she had a crush on you, and she probably thought about you alot, and built up her expectations. When you didn't meet her expectations, she decided to hightail it.

There you have it, straight from the horses mouth. Don't tell my g/f that I referred to her as a horse, though....
 
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 3:27 pm

Maybe she is upset that you can't find the apostrophe key.



 Big grin
 
wardialer
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Thu Oct 02, 2003 11:29 pm

Ok well, thx alot for the advise. This will blow off someday.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 3:34 am

Its not like she's your gf or nothing so I say move on and mack on some other chick.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 3:36 am

Who cares about girls anyways? I can't believe you stuck your tongue in her mouth that's gross.

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Fri Oct 03, 2003 4:05 am

Maybe it's not you, but her. What's up with the question marks between letters in her email? Life is life and don't let her screw up your life. She rejected you and get along back to your life. You will find another women. I just heard the funniest thing this morning on a talk radio about this girl moving in with her boyfriend and she wanted to adapt a pet and the guy went nuts. The guy thinks that with the pet they will stick and live together for ever and get married. But he doesn't want to get married and want to always remain single. That way you can date more and more girls.  Smile/happy/getting dizzy

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Fri Oct 03, 2003 4:12 am

I think you oughta just show up at her place and try to get some again.

Hell, if you're going to go down, go down swinging!  Big grin
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 6:37 am

Wow, it seem like Girl Advice is getting more popular ay? Mabey there should be an advice Column as well? I know you all helped me out a week ago so id like to return the favor.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 6:45 am

I think you oughta just show up at her place and try to get some again.

Hell, if you're going to go down, go down swinging!


Better yet, go down licking.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 7:39 am

Yeah just going down seems like a good idea  Big thumbs up
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 8:01 am

Its better than being shafted for being to compatible! Anyways that's in the past lets face it guys girls are f***ed up. So hears my latest problem i'm sure this girl who works across from me likes me ok but I was going in for something to eat as usual n she was finished and 1 the other girls is like guys were in asking for our numbers n she went of with them so am like dirty slapper! Girls suck in 2 ways just get them drunk n get your lot. but theres always a new slapper round the cornner so dont worry.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 8:42 am

Wardialer, don't worry about it!

You're young and have many many years of meeting girls, so just write it off as "her loss". Maybe you were just too much for her and she was just "BS'ing" you about herself. At least if you think of it that way you'll have a positive outlook when dating the next female.  Big thumbs up

Yes, you can't live with them and you can't live without them. She obviously wasn't your first and won't be your last!

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Fri Oct 03, 2003 8:57 am

Dash8King, have you gotten any play today? Thats what I thought.
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 9:09 am

Dash8King, have you gotten any play today? Thats what I thought.

Nope got Mono or strept throat so I am out of action for now Jcs17 and I am not interested in you when I recover Big grin.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 9:14 am

Eh, maybe she was just looking to hook up and nothing more? Maybe you started emailing her and she felt trapped, like you wanted something and she didn't. Listen, some girls are just as horny as males, and behave the same way as males when it comes to hooking up and sex.

Women are by far the most secretive, sly, and downright bitchy beings on this planet. You NEVER know what's going through their minds. So, honestly, unless you are hung like Peter Rabbit, then I wouldn't worry too much. Forget her, go find yourself some other broad.

Also, word of advice, don't play the dating game over emails and online. It only begs for trouble. First of all, you don't see each other, and what's the fun in flirting through typed words on a screen? You want to see her when she blushes, and when she gets turned on by you. Most importantly, you can never tell when people say things what context they are saying them in. It's really easy to get pissed off at someone for saying something over the internet because you don't know how they mean it, than it is in real life.

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Fri Oct 03, 2003 10:05 am

Did she feel down below? Maybe its a bit to small. Just be happy you got some without having to be in a relationship its to bad you didn't get further though. That could be it to perhaps she wanted to know more then your tongue?
 
wardialer
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 10:38 am

Ok, I just want to know what she meant by this comment:

""Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I dont know - we're different- we are not sexually compatible""

Now did she reject me for my looks or she thinks I did lowsy in bed????

I really need to know this please.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 10:41 am

Now did she reject me for my looks or she thinks I did lowsy in bed????

Well, seeing as she took the time to specifically mention it wasn't you PHYSICALLY (your looks), then it would have to be.....

...well, you get the point.

Sorry, man. Don't sweat it though. With practice, you'll get better.
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wardialer
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 12:47 pm

EA CO AS,

Have to be.... what???? So she's saying that she rejected me because of my looks?

 
Dash8King
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 12:56 pm

Wow is this the first time you've done something with a chick or what? If it wasn't physical then your moves didn't impress her!
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 1:01 pm

Okay since I am a girl I will let you know what she probably meant by this:

""Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I dont know - we're different- we are not sexually compatible""

She probably does find you attractive however she probably doesnt feel the chemistry or that "spark" that happens when you develop sexual chemistry with someone. I've met a lot of guys that I have found very good looking but didn't feel and chemistry with them. And on that same note I have met guys that weren't the most attractive and felt chemistry with them. I hope this makes sense to you and helps...


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wardialer
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 1:09 pm

Yes it does. I hope. Then why she sent my pictures back to me??? Explain that please.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 1:16 pm

"Don't take this the wrong way, but you and I just aren't sexually compatible. It's got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I don't know, we're different. Don't take it the wrong way"

Either she's really a man, or she just found out she's a lesbian. That's what I get from this anyways.

Like she said, don't take it the wrong way.
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FutureCEO
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 1:45 pm

Alright I think you are looking way to deep into this and I think you need to just move on. She's not worth your time and the energy it is taking you to worry about it. There are many more fish in the sea.
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 1:47 pm

Well if she is a lesbo, just tell your that you are a Male Lesbian so there shouldn't be any problems.
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 2:03 pm

You're analyzing this too much. Just move on. This will not be the first chick that "dumps" you. So get used to it (like all guys do).

Just smile at her & give her some polite indifference. It lets HER know that you have moved on.

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Fri Oct 03, 2003 11:18 pm

All I want to know that did she reject me for my looks or I was not good enough in.... you know what??? Just read the comment below:

""Dont take this the wrong way, but you and I just aren?t sexually compatible. It?s got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, its just, I don?t know ? were different. Dont take it the wrong way.""
 
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Fri Oct 03, 2003 11:31 pm


Dude!! Can you not read?? After 30 odd replies one would think you'd get the idea already. Obviously she didn't dump cause she thought you were ugly. And even if she did, who the hell cares??? Are you going to seek out therapy cause this one chick didn't dig your looks? Since she already said "It has nothing do with you PHYSICALLY" it's pretty safe to say you didn't exactly rock her boat. Just get up off your ass, forget about this chick, stop overanalyzing this situation, get some pointers from Maxim or something and improve your moves for next time.

 
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Sat Oct 04, 2003 1:55 am

You are analyzing this like you were engaged or something and she just threw back the ring, YOU WEREN'T GOING OUT WITH HER! Something tells me you are not 21-25, more like 12 and this is the first time you made out with a chick.
 
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Sat Oct 04, 2003 1:57 am


Don't worry about that and take it as it is.Anyway you may keep your self-confidence and after all this is humane,and then you are lucky to cut with this girl because she seems to be a beast of sex,and it is only that thing which matters to her...n'importe quoi ?
 
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Sat Oct 04, 2003 2:08 am

I know what the problem is. Hi didn't go down on her and she got pissed.
This must be the reason.

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Sat Oct 04, 2003 4:00 am

She is the hunter type. Hunters go in for the kill. The anticipation, the planning, the stalking. Then they shoot. After that, it's all downhill. The cat is bagged and there is nothing fun to do anymore.

Many hunters do this because they need to be constantly reasserted of their seducing qualities. They feel a need to get any good looking man they can, so that they can feel better.

Now if this makes you feel better, I think that you will be better off without her.

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Sat Oct 04, 2003 5:24 am

I overlooked this thread for a few days.. now I see I was correct in doing so.
Dude!!!
Get over it... It wasn't big enough and she was disappointed.
She's shallow. so move on to the next one!!
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