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The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:35 am


My girlfriend recently approached me about hoping on "the pill" and using it as an alternate form of birth control than condoms. She is very psyched about it as she wants for me to ejaculate in her, etc....I am happy about it but am also concerned (as my nature is of someone that worries a great deal) and was wondering about you guys, how many of your g/f's or wives are on it, have used it, know the effectiveness...etc...I really appreciate it.
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COAB767
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:39 am

My brother and his girlfriend said the pill is ok, but doesnt really work all that much. The patch that does not work at all, my brothers girlfriend got pregnant!!!!!!!
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WellHung
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:44 am

Save yourself the worry, save her the cash and shoot it in her face.
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:48 am

Until you both have had every blood test known to man, and you can recite all the people this chick even thought about hooking up with.... you'd be an immeasureable fool.

Use the rubber, save yourself the worry.
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CactusA319
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:53 am


My ex was on it for close to two years and it worked fine. No worries. The only downside was that she gained a bit of weight which is one of the side effects.

 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:54 am

My girlfriend is on the pill..

It's ok and it works 99% of the time..

So, there's a 1% chance..

That's why I also use a condom... just gives extra security..!

So there you go!

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 4:56 am

The pill is far more effective at preventing babies than condoms. When used properly it is around 99.9% effective vs. 80% for condoms. But babies can still happen, so it is always a risk... but far lower a risk than no pill, no rubber, or pulling out and getting your GF's face messy.
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ConcordeBoy
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 5:31 am

The pill is far more effective at preventing babies than condoms.

...a condom is farrrrrrrrrr more effective at preventing diseases than the pill  Big grin

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 5:36 am

My girlfriend went on the patch (yes, there is a new birth control patch) a couple months ago. No babies, but she has remarked that the side-effects are terrible, and she doesn't like having a sticker on her body 24 hours a day. She's actually going to the doctor today to go on the pill.
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concord977
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 5:36 am

ConcordeBoy is correct on this one.

The medical community still debates with itself over how long it really takes for certain diseases to show up in the bloodstream.

If you test negative for a disease today, that doesn't mean that you aren't carrying the disease. It just means that it isn't tripping the test yet.

Sorry to be a downer - but this really a serious matter.
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 5:47 am

Here is an example, if you contract HIV it can take up to 6 months for the antibodies to show up in a test, in other words untill you will have a positive test.

Yesterday my gf and I of just over 2 years and 6 months came to an end so like really sucks for me at the moment. She was on the pill and everything was fine for us. Just make sure your gf takes the correct pill every day as if you skip one or take the wrong one etc, it can lead to complications, in other words it can become useless and then she can become pregnant but in other words it should be perfect.
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 6:14 am

From my point of view, i think the pill is excellent. Ive been using it for nearly 3 years now i beleive, and i have never had a problem with it. Thats not to say i sleep with just anyone.. It doesnt give me any side affects and i have never had a pregnancy scare.. I think im just one of the lucky ones.
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 7:05 am

I have been on the pill for twelve years. I don't remember gaining weight when I went on it. It does have the excellent side effect of lighter, more predictable periods with less pain. I've never had any scares, or problems with it.

There are some health risks so make sure your girlfriend has a good chat with her doctor.

And as mentioned above, it does NOT replace condoms when it comes to STD prevention.
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 7:21 am

"she wants for me to ejaculate in her"

Super, this is something we all needed to know.

It has also been shown that the pill causes breast cancer later on in life.

Good luck to you.

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 7:33 am

EmiratesA345 is somewhat correct, but not totally.

The pill is associated with an increased risk of breast cancer under certain conditions. It is also associated with a decreased risk of other cancers.

See http://cis.nci.nih.gov/fact/3_13.htm
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Tue May 04, 2004 8:11 am

The pill can have many different side effects. Some people gain weight and others don't. As a matter of fact most girls now are using the needle. I believe it is call "Dep" and it is only given once every few months. The female will not get her period while using this type of birth control. BUT as ScarletHarlot mentioned above......... it does not stop STD!!!!!!!!

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 8:23 pm

Use the pill AND the condom! If you want to be on the safe side. But it is all about trust between you and your girlfriend. It is only one way to have 100 % free sex. Masturbate!

http://www.masturbateforpeace.com/stickers.html


 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 8:27 pm

A friend of mine who is on it says since she has started she has been really uninterested in sex!!!

Bears something to think about!!!

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 8:44 pm

Unfortunately once you get used to sex w/o condoms, it is sooo hard and disappointing to start wearing them again (when in a new relationship).

after I dated my ex for about 1 year, and knowing each other very well from well before the time we dated (an exceptional case, that I wouldn't apply to other situations), she decided to try the pill, and she stayed on it for the three years we stayed together after that. No problem at all, it worked perfectly.

Today I have to wear that crap each time I'm doing something.. ughh
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 8:49 pm

Damn! I'm all in for Wellhungs idea. It's free and you have nothing to worrie about afterwards Big grin
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 8:56 pm

Yeah, like a ritual, all over her face

then sit back or do whatever while she spends the next half hour in the shower



it'd be great though!!!

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Thu May 06, 2004 11:53 pm


Wellhung and Kay...sorry guys...too tired of waiting so many times for her to shower...hehe

Anyways I appreciate it guys, it's just wanna keep the lady happy you know, so I figured I would ask you folks for your honest opinions...

Regards to all
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Fri May 07, 2004 4:16 am

It claims to be 99% effective. My girlfriend is on it and it works for her, also makes her less of a bitch around mid month than she used to be, just one of the positive side effects.

It won't work at all if your girlfriend smokes, just keep that in mind.
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Fri May 07, 2004 1:42 pm

Pills are totally safe if your girlfriend is responsible and take every pill on time. I also think is more effective than condoms, it works chemically, not mechanically as condoms, so it won't brake, it don't split when you take it out.
And if your girfriend has any side effects, there are many different types, so she had to go to her OB and get new pills. My girlfrien did it and we had no troubles.

If you and your girlfriend trust each other, don't cheat each other and positively know both of you are clear from VDs, take the pill, always better than the condom barrier! specially if you are circumcised (which could be the case since you're American), because, although not totally probed, it seems circumcision reduces man's sensibility and hence you don't need more barriers. If you are not sure or you have some "adventures" sometimes, keep using the rubber

Direct sex it's much better than condoms!
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Fri May 07, 2004 8:43 pm

alright talking from the girl side of it... I was on the pill got preggo... after having my daughter (2 yrs ago on the 17th) i went on the monthly Lunel shot... I would recommend it... it gives off both estrogen and hormons that you dont gain weight and is very very safe... It has also taken care of the horrible migrains I use to get... i havent had one in 7 months... but is lightens your period and i have mine for like 2 days max, not 5 or so like most people.... or the depo shot, but my friend is on that and said that it gives off too much hormones that she gained some weight...
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Fri May 07, 2004 9:25 pm

My wife uses the pill and we are still thankfully childless. It has been hassle free for her but be aware that certain medications such as antibiotics (amoxycillin etc) render the pill useless, at which point you will have to consider other forms of contraception until she stops taking the medication.

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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Fri May 07, 2004 9:46 pm

I and my two siblings were born while my mother was taking pills. This is how effective that birth control mechanism is.
 
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RE: The Pill And How Effective

Sat May 08, 2004 7:57 am

Maybe try the rhythm method again...I heard it worked well for a who generation......atleast that is what my grandma said........I must add that she did have 18 kids.....
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