Where are the guys that work all day and have real jobs and interests?
I've been wanting to add to this thread, but really haven't had a chance to formulate a response, but I'll take a stab at it.
I pulled this sentence because I would have to say, the folks I go to the clubs with are very hard workers (with "real" corporate jobs) and they so look forward to getting together on Friday and Saturday nights. I'm a good work ethics person myself, but my current job is not what I want to do, so I hardly put in more than four hours a day (no business = no commissions = not on hourly pay = not going to stay).
Anyway, it's funny though, we are very close friends and it's so hard for us to get together during the week for a drink or dinner, so when Friday comes along- we pick a place to meet at, have a few drinks, get loud, then head out to the bar. I would say these guys I club with are good quality, have a lot going for them at such a young age (mid-20s), and up until recently, one of them was single-and-available. But, I'm the only one holding that status now, I think (which is A-OKAY!!!).
So, let me pick on a very good friend of mine, mid-20's, we normally go out Friday nights together, well, when I was in N.Y.C. just recently, he called me and told me he met someone at a club in Detroit... and it wasn't the "Mr. Right Now" guy (those are reserved for me...J/K!), this guy holds two jobs and constantly works (crazy!) and I finally met him; my friend wanted a "stamp of approval" and he got it. So, yes, there are guys in the "scene" that are good quality.
So that's him- for me personally? I would have to say meetings at the bar are great, I love it. But then you have this which I'm going to explain, which makes you wish people would just tell you their intentions flat out:
Just last night, this guy was "totally crunching on me" (a line from Never been Kissed.
) but I didn't make any moves. I started to get frustrated because if your going to look at me, make a move! (I was looking back at him) I went into aggressive mode after a few drinks and grabbed his ass while I walked by him- he then joined me on the dance floor and oh man, was he hot! But, then that was it- we both parted and I danced with another guy who got my attention by grabbing my ass. Then it was time to go, he was talking to the bouncer and I walked by and he was watching me. Back to square one- maybe my friend was cock-blocking me?
In any case, I have met a guy who knew about airplanes! Yes! We were talking (he's a friend and a DJ
at a popular night club) and I was explaining about non-reving and he was like "Have you been on the new 757-300?"...so I figured out that he dated a NW
F/A and he loved to fly, etc. So, my response was "No, but I've been on a Triple-7" (knowing obviously NW
doesn't have any).
You just have to be patient and guys will come to you like a mosquito lamp out in the back patio. (bad analogy ..LOL).
, I'm all typed out.-- Good night!