Aloges, I hate to tell you but ~~ there are a few more than one or two husbands & wives or female/male or male/male or female/female couples on a.net!!
Some people are very private and just don't want to let everyone know they are couples. That way don't have to go thru the ribbing etc. Some gals/partners may never even participate in the non av forum ~~ so they don't cross paths. It is a smart move, that way if they ever split ~~ there are no questions asked.
[Edited 2004-05-08 20:02:39]