planespotterx
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How Can I Move Out The House?

Fri Feb 11, 2005 8:30 pm

Ok people, im nearly 21..I dont have a job ATM but im searching..im currently on benefits and living at home with the 2 parents.
Mom I love to bits but my dad I wish would just die this second (infact i hope he does..if he doesnt soon I'll do it for him.)
Anyway back to being sane..I want to move out this house ASAP, is there anyway I could do this, maybe getting a council house or something, I cant stand being here anymore and im always constantly shaking and feeling depressed..I have Agro-phobia and noone understands..I just want to move out and do something for myself for a change, im not bothered about leaving everything behind as all thats just posessions and i dont need that stuff..
please can anyone help.
Its not the fall that kills u, its the sudden stop at the end..
 
saxdiva
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Fri Feb 11, 2005 8:46 pm

Hmm... I thought this thread sounded vaguely familiar...

Havent had a job since i left school (not my fault, i cant just make myself a job can i) dont have to pay rent, all i do is stay at home and play PS2 ll day and get paid for it, lifes great.
Next plan is wait till there both old and die or go to a OAP home, then i get the house to myself plus everythings been payed for by them, if I need any extra cash i'll just sell the caravan or the car, great innit.
Im not lazy, its just well thought thro.


Planespotter, you should probably talk to a professional. With that attitude, you're probably lucky your parents still tolerate you. Most roomates won't.
 
planespotterx
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Fri Feb 11, 2005 8:52 pm

Yea i know..whats the worst they can do, throw me out..im looking to leave anyway..so im just desperate to know how i can do it, and still have a place to live...I dont want to be homeless on the street whilst looking for work do I..unless thats what i need to do, but I cant stay here for long either..otherwise im gonna end up doing something silly to myself or my dad..and trust me I have a few ideas in my head right now, and if he keeps goin on like he is..i might just carry them out.
Its not the fall that kills u, its the sudden stop at the end..
 
saxdiva
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Fri Feb 11, 2005 9:04 pm

Planespotterx, do you realize that your last two posts are enough to get you arrested in some places?

There must be some kind of social services agency where you live--call them and see if they'll help. But don't keep going on like this or you're liable to find yourself locked up. Some people take this crap seriously.


Edit: Can't type tonight.

[Edited 2005-02-11 13:11:19]
 
planespotterx
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Fri Feb 11, 2005 9:24 pm

yea well its all nice and easy to play "happy families" but you dont live with him, i do and I hate it..and i hate him..
Smashes me up one minute, pretend everythings ok the next..i aint takin this crap anymore..hes a teacher, if he teaches his pupils like that he'd be sacked..so whys it ok to kick me around like a kitten in a bag..playing with my emotions and using threats.
Its not the fall that kills u, its the sudden stop at the end..
 
RNOcommctr
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Sun Feb 13, 2005 7:31 am

The key to moving out is having money, and the key to having money is to get a job. How are you conducting your job search? Is there a government-run agency that can help you with job listings and advice?

Here in the States, an employment agency can at least get you a temporary job, which often turns into a permanent job.

What are your skills? What would you like to do for work?

Surely there is some government agency that can help you assess your skills, your stregths, your limitations, give you advice on interviews, resumes, and where to find openings.

How is your personal grooming and hygiene? Go to your interviews looking sharp. Get a haircut. Shave. Wear trousers and a shirt with a collar.

Good luck and get going! Treat your job search like a full-time job. Maybe give yourself a daily goal of two interviews, a few phone calls, a few on-line resume submittals, etc.

Use your anger to motivate yourself in a positive way to push ahead aggressively with your job search.
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Newark777
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RE: How Can I Move Out The House?

Sun Feb 13, 2005 7:47 am

If all else fails, you could join the military. Have a job and no living at home. I don't know what you would do with the gun, though...

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