klm672
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A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:06 am

Last night a friend and myself drove down to southern VT (from northern VT). Anyways me met these girls online from southern VT and decided that we'd go and meet them. I just want to say there are a lot of mix feeling on the internet dating idea, and I say it works great, you know the person all ready. Well, we went to watch "Guess Who". Well this is my first date, period. I am pretty green. Well we cuddled and held hands and did end up kissing. Great, huh? ok well i decided to ask everytime we did something "can i kiss you, can I hold your hand", which i know is wrong. Hell, I was saying "don't ask" in my head. Here are snippets of her friend (my friend's date) conversation with me:

He's funny. Amanda said that you reminded her of Jacob a little bit.........
This is constructive don't get mad........
You need to work on your hugs........lol she said it was like........a pat on the back.
And don't ask everytime you do something.

So with that in mind, can you give me some tips on having a better date?
Thanks,
Andre
 
Kieron747
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:12 am

Hi, You should consider asking FLAIRPORT for advice, he's got plenty to give as he's a real successful babe magnet!  Wink

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KROC
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:13 am

Hey man. Give FLAIRPORT a call. He will probably have some great advice for you.
 
KROC
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:14 am

Damn. A couple seconds late.  Wink
 
stlgph
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:16 am

hugs? holding hands? pat on the back?

hon, the internet is for HOOK UPS
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yvrtoyyz
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 3:28 am

I saw the topic first and immediately thought that it was another one of FLAIRPORT's never-ending dating/stalking threads.

Well...if you want to find out how to do it all wrong, how to track flights, how to get rid of her forever, give FLAIRPORT a ring.

With that being said, I suggest you go see FLAIRPORT's threads and see what everyone else told him to do right and to see what happens when you don't take the advice people tell you.

In all seriousness now, just relax dude. Hugs are natural and stuff; don't think about it so much, just let loose and do whatever. Make it seem like you mean it, rather than giving the impression that you are hesitant and/or weak. Be the man and take charge.

-YVRtoYYZ
 
LY744
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 4:50 am

The one thing you should do is not worry about it like you are doing right now. As you said, it was your first date, things will soon come much easier for you, without you even trying. Relax and have fun... Don't expect too much from yourself, or the date as a whole, it will take the pressue off.


LY744.
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Pe@rson
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 4:57 am

Quoting Kieron747 (Reply 1):
Hi, You should consider asking FLAIRPORT for advice, he's got plenty to give as he's a real successful babe magnet!

LMAO. Cruel but very funny.  Wink
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nycflyer
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 5:40 am

It sounds like things went well enough that you'll get a second crack at this girl? Yeah, don't ask her, let it "happen naturally." If you kissed on the first date, then you should have much more confidence for the second.
 
leviticus
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 6:05 am

Quoting KLM672 (Thread starter):
So with that in mind, can you give me some tips on having a better date?

I do not think that is necessary, your friends date probably gave you the best tips.
 
Shawn Patrick
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 7:30 am

This thread is officially pathetic. I'm sorry.
 
Newark777
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 7:33 am

Advice? Hug normally and don't ask so many questions. Try and get some ass next time also.  Wink

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aaflt1871
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 7:47 am

Damn,

If only I had seen this post earlier, I would have loved to slam FLAIRPORT once again!!  irked  slaphappy 

What can I say, I am an asshole when it comes to people who ask for advice, then turn around do the complete opposite of the advice given, then ignore our warnings, pushes the envelope, then ends up screwing the pooch because he would not listen. Now look what happened to him. What is the latest word on his new girl?
Where did everybody go?
 
LY744
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 1:09 pm

Quoting AAFLT1871 (Reply 12):
What is the latest word on his new girl?

She left half way through their little lunch date and went straight to the courthouse to get a restraining order.  Wink


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ozguy
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 1:42 pm

I was hoping this was another one of FLAIRPORTs laugh out loud till your mates/lecturer/GF/ ask if there's anything wrong threads, that'd make my day...oh well...

Mate, Don't worry too much about what you did wrong/didn't do right or you'll make the same mistakes. Just focus on the things that are going well, go with the flow and you'll come good.
 
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Thu Apr 21, 2005 7:22 pm

KLM672-Drop me an email/PM me, I will try to give you some tips I found helpful.
 
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Fri Apr 22, 2005 6:10 am

Quoting KLM672 (Thread starter):
reat, huh? ok well i decided to ask everytime we did something "can i kiss you, can I hold your hand", which i know is wrong.

That's funny. I was stone cold drunk two nights ago, so drunk I could barely walk (I should not have drunk that much), and my friends tell me I kept asking random women if I could kiss them. Almost worked a few times, but I was so drunk I'd fall and then start laughing. Too bad. But yeah, at least I asked.
 
Jkw777
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Fri Apr 22, 2005 6:51 am

Quoting Shawn Patrick (Reply 10):
This thread is officially pathetic. I'm sorry.

I agree, this is quite hilarious!

Someone who comes to a forum for advice on charming a lady needs a serious kick up the fucking arse!

Cheers,
Justin  Smile
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ilikeyyc
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Sun Apr 24, 2005 9:29 am

Quoting Shawn Patrick (Reply 10):
This thread is officially pathetic. I'm sorry.

I agree. The worst thing anyone can do, especially when asking for dating advice, is to take advice from strangers over the internet.
Fighting Absurdity with Absurdity!
 
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Sun Apr 24, 2005 9:39 am

Quoting KLM672 (Thread starter):

Keep going out, keep making some mistakes, but LEARN from them.
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RE: A Little Prepping For My Next Date

Sun Apr 24, 2005 9:39 am

strangely enough our little jetBlue loving Ft Lauderdale stalker is not placing opinions in this thread....
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