cragley
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 9:32 pm

Ok sounds crazy but its true.

I split with the ex 2 years ago and have been thinking about him constantly and wondering whether I made the right decision.
So I just came back to Australia after being away 2 years and started a new job. I have been moved into a team where its just me and another guy there. So we started chatting and it turns out that they had a 1 nighter back in December. It was awkward to say the least, its not nice to hear that the person you have been holding a torch for has been 'getting on with things'. The plus side (if there is one) is that my ex was sleeping around on his partner. I guess he could have been sleeping around on me if I stayed.

So now I am working with the 1 nighter guy and its a little weird. Feelings dont fade overnight, but they do fade in time. I dont blame my colleague cause it was definately 'open season'. But its still kind of awkward.

SO yeah, that was the introduction to my colleague.
 
JGPH1A
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 9:34 pm

I guess the only way to get even is to sleep with the new guy too, and be all square with your ex  Smile Fair do's for everyone.
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cornish
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 9:39 pm

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 1):
I guess the only way to get even is to sleep with the new guy too, and be all square with your ex Fair do's for everyone.

Actually sleep with the big boss, get yourself promoted and then your new colleague will be your employee and you can make his life miserable.  Wink
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skidmarks
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 10:02 pm

Better still, get pissed, sleep with anyone and feel much better in the morning Big grin

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jetjack74
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 11:23 pm

Tell your Ex she may want to get checked out for an STD, that you uuuuhhhh, heard some "things" about the man she's sleeping with.
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RedDragon
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 11:46 pm

Quoting Jetjack74 (Reply 4):
Tell your Ex she may want to get checked out for an STD, that you uuuuhhhh, heard some "things" about the man she's sleeping with.

Another of those "did they even read the opening post" replies...  Wink

Gender, man!
 
NUAir
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 11:46 pm

Quoting Jetjack74 (Reply 4):
Tell your Ex she



Quoting Cragley (Thread starter):
ex 2 years ago and have been thinking about him constantly

Umm according to the profile Cragley is a male so I'm assuming he is gay and it's not a she but a he....is that right?

Either way he/she is an ex and fair game for everyone. If you regret breaking up with him/her just do your best to win him/her back and forget about what he/she did while you were split up. Otherwise you are going to open a Pandoras box of jealousy and insecurity.
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misbeehavin
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Wed Jun 15, 2005 11:46 pm

Quoting RedDragon (Reply 5):
Another of those "did they even read the opening post" replies...

Ha ha! Evidently not.
 
JGPH1A
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My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:02 am

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 1):
Actually sleep with the big boss, get yourself promoted and then your new colleague will be your employee and you can make his life miserable.

Haha - Cornish's secret of his success, it seems. Explains a lot  Smile
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RedDragon
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:24 am

Interesting quote attribution there JGPH1A...  Wink

...and there was I always thinking that "fair dos" was solely a Welsh expression...
 
skidmarks
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:25 am

I dunno, everyone takes this thread seriously and then along comes JGPH1A and it degenerates into humour. Have you no decency man? The poor chap is distraught and upset. Have some sympathy for his dire predickament.

Seriously, Cornish has a point. Revenge is so much better than remorse.

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cornish
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:46 am

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 8):
Haha - Cornish's secret of his success, it seems. Explains a lot

That's why I'm getting nowehere in this job - my boss looks so repulsive that I'd rather move !!!  Wink
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senorcarnival
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 1:02 am

If your ex was screwing around after you broke up and slept around on his other partner too, I'd stay away from this manwhore at all costs, because:
1-Who knows what kind of disease he's getting.
2-Why would you ever want to be with someone that engages in this sort of behavior when it's clear that it is not your game.
Oh no, she's getting impatient! Take a stab at it!
 
TedTAce
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 10:33 am

Quoting Cragley (Thread starter):
after being away 2 years



Quoting Cragley (Thread starter):
has been 'getting on with things'.

Cragley, I don't mean to be insensitive, but DUH. You show me ANY man (Straight or gay) who's HONESTLY intending to be true during a 1, much less two year out of the country jaunt, and I'll show you a fat bald guy who couldn't get laid at a Jenny Craig 'meeting for the blind'

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 1):
way to get even is to sleep with the new guy too,

The only reservation I have is; don't shite where you eat. Now if you and the new guy hit it off and there is an 'easy' long term vision then hey, go for it.

My suggestion, forget the ex.. I forgot mine and looking at the mess her life has become; I couldn't be any happier I have nothing to do with her.
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SFOMEX
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:10 pm

Quoting Cragley (Thread starter):
So now I am working with the 1 nighter guy and its a little weird.

At least you have one thing in common.  

[Edited 2005-06-16 05:11:38]
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 12:24 pm

Quoting SFOMEX (Reply 14):
At least you have one thing in common.

http://www.lyrics4all.net/d/deep-blu...mthing/u/breakfast-at-tiffanys.php

You say that we've got nothing in common
No common ground to start from
And we're falling apart
You'll say the world has come between us
Our lives have come between us
Still I know you just don't care

An I said, "What about Breakfast at Tiffany's"
She said, "I think I remember the film
and as I recall, I think, we both kinda liked it."
And I said, "Well, that's one thing we got."
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JGPH1A
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 4:05 pm

Quoting Cornish (Reply 11):
That's why I'm getting nowehere in this job - my boss looks so repulsive that I'd rather move !!!

Never stopped you before, dear boy. You're way too old to suddenly start having standards !  Smile

Quoting Skidmarks (Reply 10):
Have you no decency man? The poor chap is distraught and upset. Have some sympathy for his dire predickament.

None whatsoever, I thought we'd established that.

As for Cragley's "predickament" - was that a Freudian slip or crude Manx humour ?
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L-188
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 4:12 pm

Not to be crude, but what is the issue, you split up and he is getting your seconds.
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Pe@rson
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 5:54 pm

Quoting Cornish (Reply 11):
my boss looks so repulsive that I'd rather move !!!

I didn't realise JPG was your boss.
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JGPH1A
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 6:00 pm

Quoting Pe@rson (Reply 18):
I didn't realise JPG was your boss.

You just THINK you're flying home today. Guess again, Bob !
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cornish
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 6:09 pm

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 19):
You just THINK you're flying home today. Guess again, Bob !

Have the Egyptian authorities picked up James yet after your tip off JGP.

They're going to enjoy fresh meat in that Cairo jail aren't they? Big grin
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JGPH1A
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 6:10 pm

Quoting Cornish (Reply 20):
They're going to enjoy fresh meat in that Cairo jail aren't they?

I don't know about "enjoy". Even hardened killers and rapists have SOME standards.

Unlike you  Smile
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cornish
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 6:29 pm

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 21):
Even hardened killers and rapists have SOME standards.

Unlike you

I'll have you know that I have SOME standards.

Animals and dead people are definitely out of the question  yuck 
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JGPH1A
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RE: My New Colleague Slept With My Ex

Thu Jun 16, 2005 7:30 pm

Quoting Cornish (Reply 22):
Animals and dead people are definitely out of the question

Although I've heard that you relax the rule about dead people, if they're still warm  Smile
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