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How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:12 am

There is a girl in my building that I would like to know further. I often bump into her on occasion in the lobby or on the street. Any advice on how to get her attention? Her mother and my mother are friends. Should I talk to her mom to get introduced or what. Thanks in advance !!!
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:14 am

try stalking.

or watch Average Joe on NBC and feel a world of self loathing envelope around you.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:15 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 1):
try stalking.

Are you thinking about the famous Flairport thread ?  Big grin Big grin
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:17 am

no. but that gives me another idea. your mother knows her mother. instead of tracking her flights...just conveniently show up and fly along with her.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:20 am

I am thinking about getting her mom to introduce me to her. She knows I'm a good kid, so there's no problem in that respect. Its very important in getting a girlfriend to have the support of her parents.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:22 am

Just walk up to her, smile, and confidently say, "Hi, my name's Alberchico! What's yours?" (Don't really use your A.net screen name). A direct, confident greeting will disarm her enough to tell you her name. If she's smiling and seems talkative, ask her how she likes the neighborhood, etc. If she seems a bit standoffish, don't force it. As confidently as you introduced yourself, say, "Mary (or whatever her name is, it was nice to talk to you, I hope to see you around soon!" And take your leave. She'll notice you from that point on.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:23 am

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 4):
Its very important in getting a girlfriend to have the support of her parents.

that's so 1960's
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:24 am

Well what's your advice ???
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:27 am

Quoting LHMark (Reply 5):
If she's smiling and seems talkative, ask her how she likes the neighborhood, etc. If she seems a bit standoffish, don't force it. As confidently as you introduced yourself, say, "Mary (or whatever her name is, it was nice to talk to you, I hope to see you around soon!" And take your leave. She'll notice you from that point on.

Thanks. I'll try that today and see how it goes.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:29 am

i dont know her and i dont know you, or what both of you look like. so i cant even make a comparison and say that you'd have a chance in hell.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:30 am

Yeah, like LHMark said, just talk to her. And act confident, like you are the man. That is the key.

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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:32 am

Go up to her and say "Hey baby, wanna wrestle?"
 
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:33 am

Ah so confidence is the key. That must be what's throwing me off all this time.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:35 am

Just seconds before I posted "Lacrosse in Portland," this thread was right above "Girl suffers heart attack on roller coaster" thread. Hmmmm.... Just a thought.... Big grin

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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:35 am

And all confidence is in this case is the knowledge that you're worth getting to know. You don't have to act like a superstud. Just put on a big smile, introduce yourself in your normal tone of voice, and there's no shame in being shot down.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:37 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 1):
try stalking.

or watch Average Joe on NBC and feel a world of self loathing envelope around you.

 rotfl  That's the best thing i've ever read on this forum. Welcome to my respected users lol.
 
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:40 am

In anticipation…

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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:40 am

Two words for you:

Plastic

Surgery

that's the only hope.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:42 am

Quoting TPASXM787 (Reply 17):
Two words for you:

Plastic

Surgery

that's the only hope.

Nope, for me its VIAGRA and lots of it...........
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:42 am

LHmark put it best, good advice.  Smile

Just talk to her, really. Just try to become her friend and let it go from there.
 
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:48 am

Say Hi,

Then ask her out.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:50 am

Quoting Aloha717200 (Reply 19):
Just try to become her friend and let it go from there.

That's the dating advice my parents gave me.

Quoting Aerobalance (Reply 20):
Say Hi,

Then ask her out.

That only works if the guy is incredibly good looking.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:53 am

Time and time again I hear girls saying that one of the things that attracts them to a man is his sense of humour. Don't overdo it. Say something witty or humourous to her and walk on. She'll notice you, and by not hanging round you're not putting her under any pressure. Take it slowly. You've plenty of time!
 
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:56 am

Or slip something in her drink.

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:56 am

Dude. Be yourself. Make her laugh. Don't act all big.

But not neccesarily in that order.

Oh yeah, hygeine. You want her to remember you, but not cuz you smell bad. If you look like crap, its over. Pray you didn't hit every branch in the ugly tree on the way down.  Wink

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:56 am

That only works if the guy is incredibly good looking.

Remember, confidence. Ask her out, you may be surprised.

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:57 am

Be yourself

Not if you're the average a.netter.  Wink

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:00 am

Quoting Newark777 (Reply 26):
Not if you're the average a.netter.

So that means I should not spend the whole time talking to girls when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ???
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:00 am

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 21):
That only works if the guy is incredibly good looking.

Don't rush things. Get to know her and let her get to know you before you actually ask her out. On first sight the way you look is the only think that will be noticed. People become more and more attractive as you get to know their good traits.

Let her get to know you and it won't matter if you aren't Brad Pitt, your personality will be what makes or breaks any chance of a relationship. You can have a beautiful body but if you open your mouth and nothing but filth spews out, then she won't be interested. Unless she's shallow.
 
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:00 am

AHAHAHAHHAHHAA!!!

LoL. No one ever said fluffy here was average. Hope Alberchico's got some luck in his lines

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Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:03 am

So that means I should not spend the whole time talking to girls when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ???

Exactly, especially since she probably has no idea what a DC-9 is, and thinks NW is a just a direction.

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:03 am

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 27):
when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ???

You may never know now, will ya? The current gf of 7 months  gasp  actually digs airplanes of all shapes and sizes, but when it comes to a/net, she thinks we're all a bunch of loons. Don't bring up this site. It could be disasterous.

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Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:08 am

http://www.airliners.net/discussions/non_aviation/read.main/877209/

Read this and come to the hotel I work at. You're sure to get noticed if you talk to some of them.

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:09 am

Try to wear a PRADA backpack with Gucci sunglass. A tight tan top with a pair of Diesel jeans and Kenneth Cole sandals. I'm sure she will notice you immediately.

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:11 am

Quoting Newark777 (Reply 30):
Exactly, especially since she probably has no idea what a DC-9 is, and thinks NW is a just a direction.

 bigthumbsup   bigthumbsup   bigthumbsup   bigthumbsup   bigthumbsup 
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:39 am

Well if anything happens I will post a new thread with the results and mabye some photos.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:44 am

Quoting Saigonhouston (Reply 33):
Try to wear a PRADA backpack with Gucci sunglass. A tight tan top with a pair of Diesel jeans and Kenneth Cole sandals. I'm sure she will notice you immediately.

works for me!

except it's not a backpack, it's a boy purse.

Quoting XJRamper (Reply 23):
Or slip something in her drink.

Signed,

STLGph

this gets my seal of approval.

signed,
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:53 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 36):
Quoting XJRamper (Reply 23):
Or slip something in her drink.

Signed,

STLGph

Man that's funny.
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:57 am

alber--

even though i'm a total heartless bastard, you know you have my full support and i like to see happy endings, right?
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:00 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 38):
even though i'm a total heartless bastard, you know you have my full support and i like to see happy endings, right?

Well thank you. Like I said, if all goes well I will post a new thread report how things have gone !!!
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:43 am

PIITB


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nothing
 
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:55 am

I have a feeling my dude Wellhung is gonna slam this thread...
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:05 am

Quoting Srbmod (Reply 11):
Go up to her and say "Hey baby, wanna wrestle?"

"ummmm..beavis...ummmm..uh-huh huh..."....
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Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:06 am

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 27):
So that means I should not spend the whole time talking to girls when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ???

That's for sure. Do not talk about yourself and your interests (unless she asks)- Be sure to talk a lot about her and her interests, otherwise, she will lose interest in you. Make her feel comfortable, make her laugh. Be yourself and be confident in yourself.

Interesting note- most women talk to build relationships, while most men talk to spout off facts. So don't try to be an encyclopedia and impress her with your knowledge.
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:11 am

Quoting AA61Hvy (Reply 41):
I have a feeling my dude Wellhung is gonna slam this thread...

If he's not in the cooler right now...
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:12 am

Just do the mom and eventually invite the daughter to the threesome, of course!
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:18 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 36):
Quoting XJRamper (Reply 23):
Or slip something in her drink.

Signed,

STLGph

this gets my seal of approval.

Sorry couldn't resist.  Silly

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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 9:40 am

Quoting 4holer (Reply 45):
Just do the mom and eventually invite the daughter to the threesome, of course!

Thats an awful thought!  no 


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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 2:07 pm

Quoting BMIFlyer (Reply 47):
Thats an awful thought!

considering her mother, not neccesarily......
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RE: How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?

Thu Jul 14, 2005 2:16 pm

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 2):
Quoting STLGph (Reply 1):
try stalking.

Are you thinking about the famous Flairport thread ?

Find out through your mom/her mom what her next flight will be, then track it the entire way. Next time you see her, ask her about her flight, then volunteer the fact you follwed her on the internet the entire way and thought about her the entire time.

Signed,
FLAIRPORT

Seriously, do this:

- Flash a lot of money around
- Wear designer clothes whenever you're near her
- Drive a sportscar that is very powerful
- Act like a jerk
- Ignore her, make her come to you
- DON'T BE NICE...that's the kiss of death!

I've tried being nice and polite, gets me nowhere. So, follow the steps above and she'll be yours in no time. Women say they want a "nice guy" but in reality, they want an obnoxius "funny" jerk that will challenge them. Quiet, boring, shy guys are a huge turnoff to anyone even remotely attractive.
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