TedTAce
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More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:10 pm

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9358339/
More women experimenting with bisexuality
Survey: Females in late teens and 20s report increasing same-sex contact

And the problem with this is? {Cue fundie rants}

P.S. Is there a certain one in our ranks that might have insight???

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TPASXM787
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:33 pm

nothing but good news here

carry on

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MidnightMike
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:42 pm

Quoting TPASXM787 (Reply 1):
nothing but good news here

Only good news if we get to watch.....
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767Lover
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:54 pm

A rite of passage?
...some experts who study sexuality say it’s even more likely that many college students simply see experimentation as a rite of passage.


Kind of goes against the theory that homosexuality is a genetic phenomenon.
 
mika
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:21 pm

Quoting TPASXM787 (Reply 1):
nothing but good news here

carry on

I second that Big grin Big grin
 
Barcode
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:30 pm

Good news for me!  Smile

But seriously, I have noticed that some amongst my age group appear to think it is "trendy" or "cool" to have a same-sex experience. They can say they did it, and then revert back to their happy heterosexual life.

I've no interest in dating somebody who just wants an "experience", or is, to put it bluntly, a bi-try. I have enough confusions in my life without dealing with anybody elses - harsh I know, but true.

At the uni LGB group, we sometimes get people who come along thinking they can pick somebody up, and then finish once they have had whatever experience they were looking for.

Not my thing, since I cannot imagine experimenting with a man *shudder* ...
 
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:40 pm

Quoting MidnightMike (Reply 2):
Only good news if we get to watch.....

Oh yes and if we can join...
 
TedTAce
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 10:17 pm

Quoting Barcode (Reply 5):
Not my thing, since I cannot imagine experimenting with a man *shudder* ...

I thought you has stated in another thread that you thought it was a possibility?? Talk about confusion... Not to worry, if it's really a no-go I undestand; Heartbroken... but I understand.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 10:40 pm

Well, I know that my friend (who is 18) regularly has sexual contact with a girl when she doesn't have a boyfriend and isn't up for random sex. Also, I've heard that my ex-fiance has been involved in sexual contact with girls a few times since we broke up, but I think that might have just been to impress the guys in the room!

This study doesn't really surprise me. I've seen and heard the last several years about an increase in this kind of thing, whether it be for actual pleasure, experimentation, or to grab attention to themselves from guys. Whatever it is, please ladies, CONTINUE!
 
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 10:51 pm

Two important points:

1) The researchers said they don't know if there are actually more women having same-sex experiences... or just that more women are comfortable with reporting their same-sex experiences.

2) Regarding the "choice" argument... anyone can "choose" to do any act... the point is, does that act feel natural and enjoyable to you? Or was it fun and/or interesting, but you're pretty sure you're not wired to be in a long-term relationship with someone of the same sex? OR... perhaps the reality is... there is a spectrum of sexuality. Some people are at one end of the spectrum, some at the other... but MANY are somewhere in the middle. Still a function of biology... but biology often isn't black and white.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 10:54 pm

Quoting 767Lover (Reply 3):
Kind of goes against the theory that homosexuality is a genetic phenomenon.

No, it suggests yet again that Kinsey was right, and that sexuality is not a binary straight or gay for many people.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:02 pm

Lots of innuendo here Big grin

Barcode, I think I've noticed the same thing, lots of bi-trys for sake of experience. Its like the 70's all over again.

should I just rename this thread, Anet Gangbang?
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:11 pm

I'm not surprised. We men have been encouraging them for at least the last hundred years. How many times have you said, "I'd pay to see that."?
Look how at every opportunity we get, we tell them that it's socially acceptable.
I've been saying for years that all women are lesbians, they just don't all know it.  Smile

We as men are attracted to women because they are soft, and smooth, they're nubile, and smell good. Plus, they have some really interesting parts.
Men are hairy and lumpy, and have some really unattractive parts. Can we really blame them for being attracted to other women?
My wife of 20 years is extremely bi. When we go out in public, she gets in a tither watching both men and women walking by. She also has 2 steady girlfriends. One is 30. The other is 45. They are both extremely hot, and I get to reap the benefits too. I no longer have to say, "I'd pay to see that." Eat your hearts out.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:22 pm

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
More women experimenting with bisexuality
Survey: Females in late teens and 20s report increasing same-sex contact

2 most things people lie about are money and sex.
I wouldn't take this survey all to serious if I where you, it happens and also happened in history (maybe more covered up) but not nearly as much as men think.

One of their fantasy's , same as girls always running around naked when they have a sleepover or common showering after sports activities its nothing like shown on tv or in the movies.
Sorry to shatter your dreams and fantasy's guys.  tongue 
 
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:32 pm

No problem with them experimenting, as long as they know which team they're on at the end of the game.  Smile

Bikergirl- I think you're right- it's not nearly as rampant as that survey might indicate and the fantasy in indeed usually more prolific than the reality, but I can also tell you that the reality is also probably more pervasive than many would think.

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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:33 pm

Quoting Slider (Reply 14):
but I can also tell you that the reality is also probably more pervasive than many would think.

What can I say, I agree.
 
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:48 pm

My guess is that human anatomy might be part of the reason why bisexual experimentation is more common among females. Males will reach a point - or, to be precise, two points - at which "fooling around" unequivocally turns into "sex." Females don't quite have such abrupt demarcation points and therefore have more leeway in what they can do with one another without actually crossing the line into lesbianism.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:58 pm

Quoting Bikergirl (Reply 13):
Sorry to shatter your dreams and fantasy's guys.

Bikergirl, you destroyed all my fantasies  cry 


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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:00 am

Quoting MidnightMike (Reply 2):
Only good news if we get to watch.....

And they're hot... I'm sure you guys would love to see the picture I have on my computer of my best friend, but I don't think she would appreciate it too much if I posted it.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:04 am

Quoting Fokker Lover (Reply 12):
We as men are attracted to women because they are soft, and smooth, they're nubile, and smell good.

This man finds women's softness and smoothness a big turn-off, their "nubileness" irrelevant, and thinks they smell like tuna.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:16 am

I said MEN, not poofs.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:22 am

I think it's important for woman to explore there sexuality and experiment as much as possible. I've dated a few women that were bi and bi-courious that so far, they were the best mates.
I don't care if they just want to "experience", "bi-try", be "trendy" or "cool". I just want to be supportive and join in .
That's what friends are for.  Smile

Quoting 767Lover (Reply 3):
A rite of passage?
...some experts who study sexuality say it’s even more likely that many college students simply see experimentation as a rite of passage.

Kind of goes against the theory that homosexuality is a genetic phenomenon.

Not really.
Key word here; "some".
Thus not all.
Besides, stop analyzing this too much.
Don't knock it till you try it.
I won't judge you.  Smile
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:23 am

Quoting Fokker Lover (Reply 20):
I said MEN, not poofs.

Right... because real "men" prove their masculinity by molesting the smaller, weaker, smoother, sex.... yes?
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:57 am

Quoting TWFirst (Reply 22):
molesting

WTF?!?!?!? Are you on Drugs?
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:35 am

Quoting TWFirst (Reply 22):

Right... because real "men" prove their masculinity by molesting the smaller, weaker, smoother, sex.... yes?

Not so TWFirst. I prove my masculinity by exibiting an unending case of flatulance, Nuff said.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:44 am

Quoting FDXMECH (Reply 24):
Not so TWFirst. I prove my masculinity by exibiting an unending case of flatulance, Nuff said.

My kind of dude!  Big grin
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:46 am

Most of my lesbian friends have occasional slept with and/or dated men, while my straight or gay male friends would rather eat a shoe then sleeping with another man resp. woman. Women are attracted slightly more to character, face etc. then men so I think their boundery to sleep with the sexe which they don´t prefer is smaller then men, who are more focussed on the genetical marks if they are attracted to someone.
I sometimes went out with my lesbian sister to an alternative "dykes and fags" club in Amsterdam called De Trut (the Bitch) and I sometimes drooled on a Tom boy (obviously lesbian) girl with cute short hair and when I told my sister "I could sleep with her if she only wouldn´t have breasts but a penis instead" and she said that didnt make much sense for her, that she decides on other points if she likes someone or not.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:49 am

Quoting MEA-707 (Reply 26):
I sometimes went out with my lesbian sister to an alternative "dykes and fags" club in Amsterdam called De Trut (the Bitch)

Those dykes!
Sometimes you just have to stick your finger in them.  Wink
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 2:43 am

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
More women experimenting with bisexuality

I heard your wife was, after seeing you naked with the lights on.
Things were better when it was two guys in a dorm room.
 
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:07 am

Quoting CaptOveur (Reply 28):

I heard your wife was, after seeing you naked with the lights on.

This is a topic for whiners.
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RE: More Women Experimenting With Bisexuality

Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:51 am

Quoting TWFirst (Reply 19):
Quoting Fokker Lover (Reply 12):
We as men are attracted to women because they are soft, and smooth, they're nubile, and smell good.

This man finds women's softness and smoothness a big turn-off, their "nubileness" irrelevant, and thinks they smell like tuna.



Quoting Fokker Lover (Reply 20):
I said MEN, not poofs.



Quoting TWFirst (Reply 25):
Quoting FDXMECH (Reply 24):
Not so TWFirst. I prove my masculinity by exibiting an unending case of flatulance, Nuff said.

My kind of dude!

I thought your kind of dude had foreskin and a hairy back?
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