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Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:16 am

According to the news, the number of men paying women for sex has nearly doubled in a decade......

This result has come from a survey of men, who openly admitted to paying for services.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4488254.stm

Your thoughts??


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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:22 am

Quoting BMIFlyer (Thread starter):
Your thoughts??

So when women withhold sex from their husbands, this is where they go.
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:23 am

I gave a crying prostitute a ride to her home once. I felt sorry for her. It was probably the first time a guy ever talked to her like a human being, and not a recepticle.

Given the state of our world today....I wouldn't doubt for a moment that the report is true.
 
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:25 am

Quoting BMIFlyer (Thread starter):
Your thoughts??

The emancipation of women should never have occurred. They're now too quick with a bitch slap, and the worlds oldest profession has surged as a result. Over the next 24 months, brothel accountants are forcasting the need for 2,000 new prostitutes in the 18-24 age group, 1,000 new prostitutes in the 25-35 age group, and 500 new prositutes in the MILF 36+ age group.

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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:27 am

It's all about supply and demand.  bored 
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:33 am

Quoting BMIFlyer (Thread starter):
According to the news, the number of men paying women for sex has nearly doubled in a decade......

This result has come from a survey of men, who openly admitted to paying for services.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/4488254.stm

Your thoughts??

I don't believe the percentage of men using prostitutes has risen significantly. I just agree the observation in the article that "men are just more open about it" - and that men are lying less about what they have always done.
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:34 am

Quoting Nordair (Reply 4):
It's all about supply and demand.

 rotfl 

Seriously?
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:46 am

Quoting Jetjack74 (Reply 1):
So when women withhold sex from their husbands, this is where they go.

Nope. The actual number of married men visiting prostitutes is actually less. It is men between the ages of 25 and 34 and if it is the only way they can get sex then I personally don't have a problem with it.

I mean just imagine you are disabled or something and can't get a girlfriend. Does that mean you shouldn't have the same quality of life as everybody else in society?

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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:50 am

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 7):
It is men between the ages of 25 and 34 and if it is the only way they can get sex then I personally don't have a problem with it

Thats not an admission then?  Wink
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:56 am

Quoting Jetjack74 (Reply 1):
So when women withhold sex from their husbands, this is where they go.

So now we all know why a man says that a woman...
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:56 am

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 7):
It is men between the ages of 25 and 34 and if it is the only way they can get sex then I personally don't have a problem with it.

Not true.
I know a few prostitutes and they tell me that most of there customers are married men.

Quoting Nordair (Reply 4):
It's all about supply and demand.

Agreed and I can that smart capitalism!  bigthumbsup 



There reason for the surge in men renting prostitutes is because more and more men are realizing what a sham marriage is. If you look at the end result of most marriages today (divorce), in the end the man would have saved more money, had piece of mind and a lot less headache if he had just hired call girls/escorts instead of getting married.

Personally I've never had to paid for a prostitute because so many women want me anyway. Sorry but I don't mean to sound cocky but for those guys who rather not approach women, risk rejection or spend hours on the phone listening to other women's drama, I see no problem with them getting a prostitute.
We should not negatively judge men for hiring a prostitute nor should we disrespect these fine young ladies of this profession.
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 2:57 am

Well i have mixed views about this subject..

I used to think women who let them selves into prostitution were bad.. but now, when you actually look deeper into it, most of them do it as the only way to support yuong children and such.. I know 2 prostitutes and both of them are the most delightful people to talk to (never used a postitute myself i must add!) and said that they didnt want to do it, but they had to because of small children e.t.c.

Yes some may say well "Go get a real job" and what not.. and yes i cannot say i dont disagree with that, but getting a job for some people isnt as straight forward as some may think.. You cant exactly ask for character references or employment history.. and i bet it must be hard for those who actually leave school, go straight into prostitiution and then do have the balls to goto the job center, get a job, when the employer finds out in a interview or whatever that they are/were/still is a prostitute, personally i dont think any employer is going to look at taking them on at all..

Just my 2 cents..

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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:01 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 10):
more and more men are realizing what a sham marriage is.

You obviously have no idea what you are talking about because if you did you wouldn't come out with such a stupid and generalized comment.
 
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:05 am

TFSPhoto:
Great post.
When I was in college, I knew several girls that were puitting themselves through college with there money. One of them already makes over $100,000 a year for a very reputable pharmaceutical company. In fact of the one’s I’ve stayed in contacted with, all are doing very well.

I would just love to get paid for sex!
I was a ‘kept man’ for a little while but I never raked in big bucks for it.
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:09 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 13):
I would just love to get paid for sex!

OMG!!  rotfl 

See how much flame you get for that comment  Wink



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Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:15 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 10):
There reason for the surge in men renting prostitutes is because more and more men are realizing what a sham marriage is. If you look at the end result of most marriages today (divorce), in the end the man would have saved more money, had piece of mind and a lot less headache if he had just hired call girls/escorts instead of getting married.

If the main purpose of marriage was to get your peepee wet on a regular basis...then perhaps you would have a point.  Yeah sure
 
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:24 am

Quoting MD80fanatic (Reply 15):
If the main purpose of marriage was to get your peepee wet on a regular basis...then perhaps you would have a point.

It's not the 'main' purpose. It sure as hell stops that nagging question;"when are you going to get married?"
However getting your "peepee wet" as you put it better take place on a regular basis. There is a problem when married couples aren't doing it any more.
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:04 am

Quoting MD80fanatic (Reply 15):
If the main purpose of marriage was to get your peepee wet on a regular basis...then perhaps you would have a point.

I think the point is that many marriages these days have very little purpose other than, as you put it, getting one's peepee wet on a regular basis. Would you marry someone only for this reason? So if you have not found a woman with whom getting married would mean something more than that, then why get married in the first place?

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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:13 am

Quoting Jetjack74 (Reply 1):

So when women withhold sex from their husbands, this is where they go.

That reminds me of a Redd Foxx joke:

Confucius say wife who put husband in doghouse may find him in cathouse.....
 
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:28 am

Quoting DrDeke (Reply 17):
So if you have not found a woman with whom getting married would mean something more than that, then why get married in the first place?

MD80fanatic totally missed the point.
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:33 am

I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them. And sadly, the men fall for it. If I was in a situation like that and was given the survey, I'd say I had been with a prostitute, too.
 
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:35 am

Quoting Srbmod (Reply 18):
Confucius say wife who put husband in doghouse may find him in cathouse

Simply funny and very true. We miss you Redd
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:56 am

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them. And sadly, the men fall for it.

I call them SUCKERS!
However every man has fallen for that at least once. It's best to learn not to fall for that early on in life.
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:18 am

Hi All,

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them.

Damn good post. I completely agree. Relationships are now so material orientated that it makes me sick..It seems like all of my friends are suffering at work to buy the Luxury car to match whatever their stupid wives' friends are doing. These defacto prostitutes claim that this is the way a man should show his affection for them...(Hence the label WellHung has assigned to them!)

My way of "showing affection" would be the following: Always support them even if I disagree, give them the security of knowing I'd never ever cheat on them, take interest in their lives, coach them to realize 100% of their potential, and be there when they need me....I'm not sure what I'm missing here..

I can't say I blame men for seeking Prostitutes. Like everyone else, I work hard for my money and can't justify throwing it down Black Holes (or would Whores be a better word?) just for the sake of satisfying Society. I'd probably be better off doing what these guys are doing!

I think some of these DeFacto Prostitutes want to have it both ways..The Advent of feminism taught us that women should work and be completely independant. So why is it that the Man has to pay for everything?! The way I see it is that it should be 50-50. Why can't we demand material items as a sign of their undying love and committment to us? It's B***S*** and they know it!!!

This is what puts me off of marriage completely. It's a damned shame our society continues to become so money orientated. Perhaps it's why we have sky high divorce rates..I wonder what it will take to make people realize what relationships should be..

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Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:39 am

Whoever can create a cyber girl that looks, act, smells and pleases like the real thing will be one lucky BILLIONAIRE! Add that this cyber girl would be disease free!
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:58 am

Every young man should bookmark this website:

http://www.nomarriage.com/
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:09 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 25):
Every young man should bookmark this website:

http://www.nomarriage.com/

Quoted from teh website:
"A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase"
There are lots and lots of Russian women who come to America, overstay their visas looking for an elderly sucker and all of the above describes them perfectly
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:15 am

Quoting BMIFlyer (Thread starter):
According to the news, the number of men paying women for sex has nearly doubled in a decade......

All sex is paid for - in one fashion or another . . . .

Quoting Halls120 (Reply 5):
I don't believe the percentage of men using prostitutes has risen significantly. I just agree the observation in the article that "men are just more open about it" - and that men are lying less about what they have always done.

Took the words right outta my mouth . . . I'm sure the numbers haven't increased, just men (and women) being more open about it. Welcome to today's society.

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them. And sadly, the men fall for it. If I was in a situation like that and was given the survey, I'd say I had been with a prostitute, too.

Like I said - you pay for sex one way or the other . . .
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:29 am

Quoting RAMPRAT980 (Reply 26):
There are lots and lots of Russian women who come to America, overstay their visas looking for an elderly sucker and all of the above describes them perfectly

Very true. I should have indicated that there are some flaws with his assumption that all foreign born women are better.

By the way, I like your signature.  Cool
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:39 am

Hi Everyone,

Quoting RAMPRAT980 (Reply 26):
There are lots and lots of Russian women who come to America, overstay their visas looking for an elderly sucker and all of the above describes them perfectly

I'd probably add any girl who was born or raised here from an Immigrant family. In India they have a slang term for "Westernized" Indians..ABCD (American Born Confused Desis) Desis is slang for a person of Indian origin. "Modern" Indian-Americans Girls AND Boys are the same...

The No Marriage.com site is informative, required reading for those hopeless romantic fools..It tells you reality..I think people sometime get so caught up in this whole "Love" thing that they forget the reality of the situation!

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Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:54 am

Quoting Sv7887 (Reply 29):
American Born Confused Desis

A buddy of mine is going through a divorce and custody battle with one right now.

Quoting Sv7887 (Reply 29):
I think people sometime get so caught up in this whole "Love" thing that they forget the reality of the situation!

Well said. Some women have tremendous power to cast a spell on men to where the guy can't think straight or see the obvious.
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 8:10 am

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them.

You reckon? I would think that the courting process has become more equal when it comes to "splitting the bill". 20-30 years ago it would be unheard of for a woman to expect to pay for anything on a date, and gifts were often expected. I think now, with the increasing level of independance, women are less comfortable with the obligation that might be implied by not paying their own way.
 
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 8:25 am

It's that time of the year when more men look to buying their slap and tickle sessions anyway...

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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:40 am

Quoting ClassicLover (Reply 3):
Over the next 24 months, brothel accountants

You can get an accounting job at a brothel ???

Where do I sign up ???
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Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:45 am

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 33):
You can get an accounting job at a brothel ???

Prostitutes here in San Francisco are about to unionize. Big grin
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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:49 am

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them. And sadly, the men fall for it. If I was in a situation like that and was given the survey, I'd say I had been with a prostitute, too.

And even when you do that you still cannot get laid.... Smile)



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Fri Dec 02, 2005 10:02 am

Thanks superfly. So far the politically correct sensors haven't asked me to remove it
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Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:01 am

Quoting KiwiinOz (Reply 31):
You reckon? I would think that the courting process has become more equal when it comes to "splitting the bill". 20-30 years ago it would be unheard of for a woman to expect to pay for anything on a date, and gifts were often expected. I think now, with the increasing level of independance, women are less comfortable with the obligation that might be implied by not paying their own way.

Here's the way I see it. In the past, men paid because it was the gentlemanly thing to do and dictated by societal norms. Women didn't see a man paying for dinner as him wanting something from her. It was expected by both sides as part of the courtship routine.

Today, if a man constantly buys a woman meals, gifts, etc. and kisses her ass, he is not doing so because that is what society dictates, rather it is because he wants that woman's attention... and more and feels that buying her attention is the best way to achieve this. Women see this and take advantage of it. This is not to say that every woman or man subscribes to this, but a helluva lot do. And there's a mighty fine line between that and prostitution.
 
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Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:07 am

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Smart man gives wife an upright organ.

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Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:15 am

Quoting WellHung (Reply 20):
I think the issue is that more and more women are becoming de facto prostitutes. They make men buy them dinner, jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. so that they will continue to sleep with them. And sadly, the men fall for it.

Gotta admit it -- Wellhung hit the nail on the head on this one.

Agreed 100%




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RE: Report: More And More Men Using Prostitutes

Sat Dec 03, 2005 5:10 am

Quoting WhiteHatter (Reply 32):

LOL  rotfl 

I think the subject is best summed up by Samantha from "Sex and the City":

"Money is power and sex is power; therefore the payment of money for sex is merely an exchange of power."  bigthumbsup 

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