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Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:50 am

Does it ruin it for you? Or are you happy to use them?  Smile
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:54 am

Wrap it before you tap it!
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:55 am

I hope that some members here use them and don't reproduce.  Wink

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Does it ruin it for you

Nope, never did

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Or are you happy to use them?

Happy as in, i'm happy to greatly reducing the possibility of getting an STD?... then yes  Wink
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:59 am

Quoting YooYoo (Reply 2):
I hope that some members here use them and don't reproduce.

 rotfl   rotfl   rotfl 
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:59 am

To try to make a serious attempt to a thread by 9V-SPO Big grin

engage in safe sex if you don't know your partner  Smile
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 5:59 am

How much fun can it be having an unwanted kid or an STD or AIDS? the title of this thread should be:

"Are you a selfish unthinking prick or not?"

Far too many people only think in the now and address their own personal pleasure as a priority.

I had the "Gentlemens Operation" years ago, if i had to hook up with a new sexual partner you can be damn sure I'd still use a condom until such time as we both knew neither of us was a health hazard.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:00 am

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):

No I don't use them

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:02 am

Before you attack her, wrap your whacker!  rotf 

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:03 am

Quoting Mrniji (Reply 4):
engage in safe sex if you don't know your partner



Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 5):
I'd still use a condom until such time as we both knew neither of us was a health hazard.

A partner's status can change over time due to a number of factors. Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:05 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?

Maybe so but im sure she would take that as you dont trust her.. and i'd hate to see jafa have his orange center all mushed!

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:07 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?

So you don't believe in "trust" in a relationship then?  Yeah sure
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:11 am

Quoting EWS (Reply 9):
Maybe so but im sure she would take that as you dont trust her

Its Aerowesty mate, he doesn't trust "him" not her"
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:11 am

Quoting Cosec59 (Reply 10):
So you don't believe in "trust" in a relationship then?

Never said that. The two posts I referred to were about "new" relationships, and you know as well as I do that essentially you sleep with everyone the other partner slept with their entire life.

If you've hooked up with someone new, and you're getting a bit of nooky, realize that he or she's been giving and getting with more than just you in the past.

Just when does a new partner become "safe"?
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:15 am

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 5):
"Are you a selfish unthinking prick or not?"

No, I just pay for the pill and have only ever been with one girl that has only ever been with me. Pretty simple.
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:15 am

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:17 am

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 5):
"Are you a selfish unthinking prick or not?"

 checkmark  In this day and age, there is no excuse for putting yourself or your partner at risk. Nothing scares/saddens me more than listening to younger folks these days say, "Oh well, I talked to him/her, and they told me they were clean, so it was ok. . . "

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 12):
Just when does a new partner become safe"?

Age old question. You have to make a judgement call at some point. Ours was six months and being tested (for everything) together.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:21 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
A partner's status can change over time due to a number of factors

Not if you are faithful!
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:23 am

Quoting Searpqx (Reply 15):
You have to make a judgement call at some point. Ours was six months and being tested (for everything) together.

My only reservation about making a judgment call is, if 50% of marriages end in divorce, how many of those broken relationships were because of the partner straying? In uncommitted relationships, the figure could even be higher.

The odds just don't work on one's favor.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:23 am

Quoting NorCal (Reply 14):
Don't be a fool, wrap your tool

 rotfl  , and so true  Smile
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:24 am

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 5):
I had the "Gentlemens Operation" years ago

So you are a Jafa in more ways than one, eh?  Smile
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:25 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 17):
if 50% of marriages end in divorce, how many of those broken relationships were because of the partner straying?

That percentage is probably quite high!
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:27 am

It isn't.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:40 am

Unless you want Junior running around in about 8 months, I'd recomend you use a condom!!
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:44 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?

Yes. It's called trust and being faithful. I could be wrong - I hope I'm not. But that's how I live it.

When I get serious in a relationship, these are things we talk about. One of the rules is "be faithful, and if you can't, be honest enough and tell the other one - it's better to break up than being dead". It's not difficult IMHO.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:49 am

Quoting ManuCH (Reply 23):
One of the rules is "be faithful, and if you can't, be honest enough and tell the other one - it's better to break up than being dead".

Yup, and it's unfortunate for everyone that every person doesn't take that stance.

When it really comes down to it, I don't really care if someone makes a personal choice to put their life at risk (as long as it's not around me). It's just I don't like to hear people say "but we're faithful" instead of "I'm taking a calculated risk that I understand the consequences of if the odds go against me."
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 6:51 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 24):
"I'm taking a calculated risk that I understand the consequences of if the odds go against me."

Agree with you there - there are measures you can take, but in the end its a leap of faith.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:00 am

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:05 am

Before you bang, wrap your wang.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:44 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 24):
It's just I don't like to hear people say "but we're faithful" instead of "I'm taking a calculated risk that I understand the consequences of if the odds go against me."

I actually said that, formulated somewhat differently:

Quoting ManuCH (Reply 23):
I could be wrong - I hope I'm not. But that's how I live it.

Basically I agree with you, there is a calculated risk, but that's something I agree to live with. Obviously I prefer not thinking everyday that I'm taking a calculated risk, but instead put it in the back of my head somewhere so that it doesn't really stop me from living. It wouldn't make sense. I mean, your concept is 100% correct, and that's what (probably) most people think, but bringing it up all the time would be a little pessimistic IMHO...

It's like saying "I love bungee jumping (or any other extreme/dangerous activity)": hardly anyone will also add "but I know there's a small chance that I could get killed". It's implicit and accepted.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:59 am

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Wrap it before you tap it!

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Couldn't have put it better myself, and yes, I do use them.



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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 7:59 am

Quoting ManuCH (Reply 28):
It's like saying "I love bungee jumping (or any other extreme/dangerous activity)": hardly anyone will also add "but I know there's a small chance that I could get killed". It's implicit and accepted.

Right, but my point is personal responsibility. Only 0.0000000000001% (or something like that) of people who get a social disease that kills them got it through no fault of their own (like someone going after them with a needle, etc.).

Over two decades after we discovered HIV, people are still saying "I'm safe if I'm faithful". That puts the onus on the partner to "give it" to them.

Nuh uh, you get it through your own actions.

Like I said before, I don't really care about what personal decisions other people make when it comes to sex, as long as they don't act the victim if the odds go against them in behavior that has a chance of being a risk.

My personal decision, after slutting my way through three decades, is to wrap it before I hit it.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 8:20 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?

That's a bit different from a new partner.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 12):
Just when does a new partner become "safe"?

After testing.

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 19):
So you are a Jafa in more ways than one, eh?

In name and concept!  Smile
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 8:38 am

ruins it for me...although I guess I'm spoiled at this point in my life. Once I'm back on the market I will of course be using them...
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 9:05 am

I mean, any guy who tells you it's better with a condom is just plain lying, but also, any guy who says he'd rather not have sex than wear a condom is a jack ass. Sex is sex, and if a condom is needed, so be it. Sure, it's about 100x better without, but it's still great with!
 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 9:07 am

Using condoms is the responsible thing to do- they safeguard us against unwanted pregnancies and STDs. Putting one on is a small price to pay for such protection.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 11:56 am

I'll be the first guy to own up and admit to any girl that condom-sex is just not as good as condomless-sex.

But, pleasure aside, condoms are definitely the smart way to go. I've had condomless intercourse with two females, both of whom I had known very well for a long time before having sex with them, and I felt (in my own judgement) that I could trust them and what they said about their health. They put the same trust in me.

Condomless-sex is for people in serious relationships. It definitely adds a lot to the relationship to put that kind of trust in the partner, and it makes the sex that much better (for the emotional and purely physical reasons).

No one wants to make a baby when they don't want one, and no one wants to get STD's, but nearly everyone wants to have sex (especially the one's who've already had it). It is up to those having sex to make the responsible decisions to protect themselves and their partners when doing it.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 12:11 pm

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

now adays there are too many STD's squirming around, I'm single, and have different girls now and then, so its a necessity to use a condom, better safe than sorry.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 12:54 pm

The bottom line is you have to use them..... My son, after my divorce from his Step-father, left a box of them for me in my desk drawer............ with a note...... "Just a reminder"..... (sort of paraphrasing here)......(he was a little more graphic)................

It's tough, I hadn't used them since my first boyfriend in college..... and then only for birth control.............. but times have changed...... and I lost a lot of friends in the '80s, so I take it pretty seriously.....

It's different for women as well............... but we can all live to laugh about it later.................. hopefully.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 1:46 pm

Quoting ManuCH (Reply 23):
When I get serious in a relationship, these are things we talk about. One of the rules is "be faithful, and if you can't, be honest enough and tell the other one - it's better to break up than being dead". It's not difficult IMHO.

Right because that ALWAYS works that way.....  Yeah sure

You have to be responsible for YOURSELF and for that reason, always wear and/or request your partner to wear protection also. Very simple rule, no exceptions.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 1:59 pm

well I'll be dammed. A thread where everybody agrees on something !!!
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 2:16 pm

Faithful spouse?

I was 100% sure my ex-wife was faithful to me until I found out otherwise.
Both times. (I know, I know. "Fool me twice...")
Who knows what I don't know about.

Still, if I ever remarried, I would probably not dome up. Probably.
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 3:02 pm

condoms...? whats that?

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Fri Mar 24, 2006 4:01 pm

Quoting MiCorazonAzul (Reply 38):
You have to be responsible for YOURSELF and for that reason, always wear and/or request your partner to wear protection also. Very simple rule, no exceptions.

The principle is right. But I just can't imagine being in a long-term, supposedly serious relationship, and use condoms all my life. There's risk involved, I already said that, but that's how it works. I simply hope that I can trust the other person, and at a certain point in a relationship I will (or drop him earlier).

Or tell me ... how are people supposed to get kids? Do they use condoms for that, too?  Smile

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 12:41 am

Quoting ManuCH (Reply 42):
Or tell me ... how are people supposed to get kids? Do they use condoms for that, too? Smile

Who said people are supposed to have kids? Many don't want them. As for the topic at hand, yes, I use them.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 12:46 am

A piece of advice to me after a recent scare......

"Slap a cap on the chap and go enjoy yourself!!!!!"

also I've heard

"Never go without a raincoat!!"

Both sound pieces of advice. (Thank you, 2J!!!!)
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 1:53 am

Sammy Safe Sex says: Slip it on before you slip it in!

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 1:58 am

Quoting SAIL52115 (Reply 45):
Bag it before you shag it

ROTFL  rotfl 
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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 2:14 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 8):
A partner's status can change over time due to a number of factors. Would you put your life at risk banking on that your devoted partner didn't stray, even just once?

Ahhrgh a having a relationship with you must be a share of trust.

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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:38 am

I saw a hilarious poster in Key West.... it was a picture of Queen Victoria.... (almost identical to this one)



"Even a Queen Can Get The Clap! Always Practice Safe Sex!"


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RE: Condoms: Yes Or No?

Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:42 am

If there's trust and stuff I'd prefer not to use them... otherwise I prefer some rubber than some illness
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