I would like help/ideas on how to slow myself down. Typically I will meet a girl (usually online- feel free to laugh but as i stated in another topic its the only way these days, i live 50 miles from the nearest club, seriously) and it seems like we'll be talking and then I'll find myself giving out my cell (I always use the line "I will give u my cell, I'm paying for it I might as well use the thing") and inviting them to hang out or ice cream or something.
Another case is I invited this girl from my old college last week to a local basketball game my work will be involved in. Well she said let me know the time and i'll let u know if i can go. I found the time and called her. waited a day or two and left her a message on IM, waited another day and wrote her on myspace and automatcally wrote her on IM to tell her to check myspace! I have since not talked to her and left her be. As i type this I can see myself that its to much and it freaks people out, but i do have a fear that if i don't talk to them often they'll "forget" about me and They'll say "oh, well you're not around, and we don't talk often so you sliped my mind" or "Well we just talk on Myspace and IM I didnt know you wanted to meet" or something along those lines. I guess i feel an impulse to let them know I like them or to make them "not virtual" while they're single because I have a fear one day they won't be single. Just today a girl IMed me and said its annoying that i say Hi to her everyday, I don't realize these things. Any suggestions on how to "keep in touch" and not over do it.
[Edited 2006-04-18 16:54:36]