|Quoting FutureUALpilot (Thread starter):
Last week went really well, and today we got in a fight because she kept claiming how "fun" and :wild" next year would be and I got tired of it so I said I hope you keep in mind how I feel about it and she kept saying how she was gonna do whatever she wanted. we had a fight and didnt talk for most of the day until recently when she said she was done and didnt care about us and didnt want to try anymore and ended it.
I want to express to you my sympathies for what just happened. It's tough breaking up with someone, especially if you're not the one who wants to do it.
However, my first reaction is that it seems strange that you report that "last week went really well", when all of a sudden this week it seems to have fallen apart. This suggest to me that maybe it's too early to draw a firm conclusion as to what happened today. I'm in no position to really judge, but it seems to me that maybe you shouldn't conclude that everything is over and done with just from what she said today.
Please keep in mind that I don't doubt your word; not at all. But, I do wonder if maybe you shouldn't sleep on it, at least, and think about what happened today in the morning. Sometimes people say things in the heat of passion that they really don't mean.
Whatever happens, it's not going to be easy to deal with, and there will be moments of sadness, or at least awkwardness; things may get worse before they get better. But there is one truth, I guess, that you might consider: If you and she were never meant to be, then it's better that you find out now rather than later.
I hope you have friends and relatives in the non-online world in whom you can confide, as well; these are the times when their advice and support can come in handy.
I'm glad you found the advice of your online friends here helpful; I think you'll find that many of us feel for you, as yours is a position not uncommon in the world today. Rest assured, however, that things will get better.
My best to you, and I hope that things improve for you soon.
[Edited 2006-05-02 06:32:44]
What's fair is fair.