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52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 8:42 am

Thanks to Lee, everyone can enjoy this sadly true list of 52 things most girls don't know about guys.

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-
how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. uh oh

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

52. When we say you are beautiful and we dont think u look bad....we mean it.


Yeah I thought it was funny/true.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 8:50 am

I agree with every single one... now if only I realized the girl that said she "loved me" diddnt actually mean it say 2-3 months ago I woulden't have polished off a 12 pack of Bud Light in a fit of anger... That and apparently she f**ks guys after a month, but not me... Stupid whore. Right, rant over.

Best ones here.

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
1. Guys hate sluts.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-
how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 8:54 am

Acttually, I did know most of those. But then again, I'm old enough to a) be your mother and b) have been around the block a time or two!!!

By the way, girls who read romance novels and take them seriously are way too immature for a serious relationshhip. Sure, we'd all like to think that our man is going to sweep us off our feet and ride off with us into the sunset but this is the real world....
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 8:56 am

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 2):
By the way, girls who read romance novels and take them seriously are way too immature for a serious relationshhip.

Hahahahaha. I love it... You describe my ex!  rotfl 

Ok, im done. really.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 8:58 am

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 2):
but this is the real world....

Exactly, some people lose touch with that simple statement.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:03 am

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

most of the stuff if not all the stuff uve got is correct. but this one is particularly true. When my mates f up i always tell them, well,we'll never be perfect but what we can do is learn from our mistakes and try not to f up again.ALL guys makes mistakes, but only some will learn very quickly, others will never learn .

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:05 am

Quoting ATAIndy (Reply 4):
Exactly, some people lose touch with that simple statement.

I've met too many guys who were wonderful upon first meeting, but kicked me in the ass in the cold light of day. I'm much more of a realist these days.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:08 am

 yawn 

I could name about 50 more things, but I'd have to delete my own post.  Smile
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 10:00 am

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):


I won't address each point, but I would like to know how you got inside my head. If I could find a woman that would appreciate all of these qualities in me, and not use me merely as a pleasure device, then I would find comfort in waking up everyday, knowing that someone loves me. If anyone wants a piece of BAB's heart, recognize the conventions outlined in the opener.

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 2):
but this is the real world....

It still happens, ya know?

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 11:37 am

My appraisal-

1. True
2. True
3. True
4. Sometimes
5. True
6. Sad, but True
7. EXTREMELY True
8. False
9. False
10. False
11. False
12. True
13. True
14. Somewhat True
15. False
16. True (in my case!)
17. I personally am, I don't know if ALL guys are.
18. True
19. If we feel attracted to the friend, True
20. VERY True
21. False
22. True
23. True
24. True (Though I try not to use "hot" as much...)
25. True (It certainly is for me!)
26. Most of the time...
27. False
28. True
29. True
30. True (if she makes a big deal of it)
31. VERY True (and don't you ladies forget it!)
32. True
33. True (You bet your ass we do! We take huge efforts not to appear whipped!)
34. Sometimes
35. True
36. Sometimes
37. False
38. True
39. True (Most likely... I've been the best guy friend in that situation!)
40. True
41. True
42. True
43. True
44. True (Doesn't help us guys with self-confidence problems!)
45. True (PLEASE TAKE THIS TO HEART!)
46. True (Captain Obvious moment there!)
47. EXTREMELY True
48. True
49. True
50. True
51. True (Thank you! I wish everyone understood that!)
52. True

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 8):
I won't address each point, but I would like to know how you got inside my head. If I could find a woman that would appreciate all of these qualities in me, and not use me merely as a pleasure device, then I would find comfort in waking up everyday, knowing that someone loves me.

I'm totally on the same wavelength as you man... It's so difficult to find a woman who can treat you like that, because a lot of times, they are A) on the defensive in case they think you're an asshole, or B) they've assumed all guys are assholes and treat you as such...
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 11:56 am

Quoting San747 (Reply 9):
It's so difficult to find a woman who can treat you like that, because a lot of times, they are A) on the defensive in case they think you're an asshole, or B) they've assumed all guys are assholes and treat you as such...

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I'm just tired of playing the games. I don't have the time or the energy. If you want me, and I want you, then let's do this thing. I'd rather have it all from day one, than fool around for a month.

As they say, it takes a second to meet someone, a minute to know them, five to love them, and a lifetime to forget. I subscribe to that philosophy.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:08 pm

You know what? I can never figure out what a guy wants... Never I'm useless at it!

Guys are very hard to read because they hint and don't/wont admit to anything and just confuse you more....

argh!
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:08 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 10):
I'm just tired of playing the games. I don't have the time or the energy. If you want me, and I want you, then let's do this thing. I'd rather have it all from day one, than fool around for a month.

 checkmark 

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 10):
As they say, it takes a second to meet someone, a minute to know them, five to love them, and a lifetime to forget. I subscribe to that philosophy.

 yes   checkmark 

Very true. What also pisses me off/gets me down is when the girl plays the "I like you alot, but lets stay friends. Wanna go out next weekend and hang out?" I hate that!
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:10 pm

Personally, I think the thread-starter needs to change his tampon.  Wink
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:18 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 11):
Guys are very hard to read because they hint and don't/wont admit to anything and just confuse you more....

Kaz, just look the man in the face, and you will see everything that he wants. It might not be what you want, too, and in that case, you move on. However, if you see something to appreciate, you know that you don't have to waste time dragging the words out of him.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:19 pm

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 13):
Personally, I think the thread-starter needs to change his tampon.

 rotfl 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:23 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 14):

Kaz, just look the man in the face, and you will see everything that he wants. It might not be what you want, too, and in that case, you move on. However, if you see something to appreciate, you know that you don't have to waste time dragging the words out of him.

Cutting long story short..

I like a guy, I dont know what he wants, maybe i take things as hints to much, maybe I look into thins a bit to much, I dont know what he wants, I dont know how he feels and im to scared to risk taking a chance, not to mention a frikkin chicken....
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:32 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 16):
Cutting long story short..

Well, I could smother you with a thousand cliches, but...

Just tell this guy how you feel. What is the worst thing that can happen? He won't reciprocate, and you move on. Of course it will hurt a little, but would you rather miss out on something good by avoiding the issue just so you don't have to be in a bit of pain, or would you rather have a nice relationship with this guy for a while?

Also, you're much better off learning how to cope with these things now, than ten years down the road. It will make life a lot less stressful for you.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:36 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 17):
Just tell this guy how you feel. What is the worst thing that can happen? He won't reciprocate, and you move on. Of course it will hurt a little, but would you rather miss out on something good by avoiding the issue just so you don't have to be in a bit of pain, or would you rather have a nice relationship with this guy for a while?

I know I know, but all easier said then done...

Im just confused about it all right now, I mean common, hes cute  Smile we have some stuff in common, and well I really like him  Smile But my nerves in these cases shoot to hell.... I just need more confidence and the right time to actually face him... But I doubt very much Ill get the result I want...
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:37 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 16):
I like a guy, I dont know what he wants, maybe i take things as hints to much, maybe I look into thins a bit to much, I dont know what he wants, I dont know how he feels and im to scared to risk taking a chance, not to mention a frikkin chicken....

Kaz: Most guys like a woman who is up-front, but not overly brash (if he doesn't, he's probably too self-absorbed to be of much worth anyway).

So, have some guts, and speak your mind. Just don't be too bold as to scare him off. We've all got our own limits, so it is a risk, but if you are true to yourself, and it doesn't work out, then you've done the right thing, no?

Always be true to yourself. Think first, and then do what you feel is right. Don't look back. Only then will you end up with someone with whom you are truly compatible. At a young age such as yours, people mature at vastly different rates. It may get easier in your mid-20's, but then again, it gets harder by your 30s, as people become more set in their ways.

Of course, what the hell do I know? I've been divorced for a year and a half.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 12:44 pm

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 19):

Kaz: Most guys like a woman who is up-front, but not overly brash (if he doesn't, he's probably too self-absorbed to be of much worth anyway).

thanks  Smile Ill just have to see how things go.. this has been going on now for quite some time! I'm gradually building up the guts though.. well trying to!

Ill stick by what I said though, Guys are confusing, they don't give a clear enough message and leaves you in my position!
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:07 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 20):

Put it this way, then. Everything you are going through, emotionally and mentally, the guy is going through, too. Put yourselves out of this misery, and speak your mind to him.

Want me to call him?  Wink

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:12 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 21):
Put it this way, then. Everything you are going through, emotionally and mentally, the guy is going through, too. Put yourselves out of this misery, and speak your mind to him.

I kinda feel that he knows how I feel anyway... Mainly because I drop so many hints, flirt and a few other reasons etc.. So if he knows then why is it so complicated...

Nah don't call him, that would be the easy way out for me and hard on him...
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:19 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 22):
Mainly because I drop so many hints, flirt and a few other reasons etc

I've always hated that crap. Hints and flirting suck big time. I've had women drop hints and flirt that later say: "What the hell are you thinking? I just want to be friends."

Crap, crap, crap, up and down the scales. Speak truth. We all need more of that. That's what men want. And if they don't, they're full of shit and not worth a dime.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:25 pm

Quoting San747 (Reply 9):
It's so difficult to find a woman who can treat you like that, because a lot of times, they are A) on the defensive in case they think you're an asshole, or B) they've assumed all guys are assholes and treat you as such...

It's becoming more difficult to find such a woman because today's culture is becoming more and more sex-driven and leaning more and more towards lust and sex rather than a real relationship. Anyone who can't see it is blind. So many men view woman as simply sex toys and too many women allow themselves to be used (or even enjoy) as such and are giving into this culture, and it's simply sad.

I'm not interested in dating a women if the relationship is going to be purely physical and won't be successful in the long run. I'm a 19 year old college student and yet still a virgin, and it doesn't bother me. (Part of that is that I'm waiting to lose my virginity on a Virgin Atlantic Airways flight.  bigthumbsup  ) I don't want one night stands or even one month stands. And I want a women who has similar values when it comes to a relationship. But sadly, I feel I am becoming a minority and looking for a minority as well. I hope I'm wrong about that.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:32 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 16):
I like a guy, I dont know what he wants, maybe i take things as hints to much, maybe I look into thins a bit to much, I dont know what he wants, I dont know how he feels and im to scared to risk taking a chance, not to mention a frikkin chicken....

Kaz, I'm sorry but I dont have feelings for you. Lettin you down easy here.  Wink

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):

Agree with every point. Now if someone was able to get into a woman's mind and write a similar post we all might get the help we need.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:33 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 8):
It still happens, ya know?

Not in my neck of the woods, and certainly not at my age!!

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 10):
As they say, it takes a second to meet someone, a minute to know them, five to love them, and a lifetime to forget. I subscribe to that philosophy.

They were right.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 1:39 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 22):
and a few other reasons

Ooooo, naughty details, please!  devil 

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 22):
I kinda feel that he knows how I feel anyway..

If you say so, lol.

I had a girl on me once. She was perfect. She would flirt like a devil, say everything romantic in the book, and do all the sweet things imaginable for me. But, she never told me that she loved me. She thought I knew, but, I think she was afraid I wouldn't love her back. Had she told me, I might very well be laying next to her right now. As it is, she couldn't tell me, and, today, I have no idea where she is or what she is doing.

I would've married that woman the moment that I met her. Instead, we spent a few months wondering how the other felt because we were too afraid to say how we really felt.

I could have told her that I loved her, but, like her, I didn't know how she would respond. I should've said it, and she should've said. Neither of us did, and now, the only thing that remains of us are two broken hearts.

Ultimately, do what's right by you. You seem to have a good grip on this.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 2:17 pm

Quoting FlyDeltaJets87 (Reply 24):
It's becoming more difficult to find such a woman because today's culture is becoming more and more sex-driven and leaning more and more towards lust and sex rather than a real relationship. Anyone who can't see it is blind. So many men view woman as simply sex toys and too many women allow themselves to be used (or even enjoy) as such and are giving into this culture, and it's simply sad.

I'm not interested in dating a women if the relationship is going to be purely physical and won't be successful in the long run. I'm a 19 year old college student and yet still a virgin, and it doesn't bother me. (Part of that is that I'm waiting to lose my virginity on a Virgin Atlantic Airways flight. ) I don't want one night stands or even one month stands. And I want a women who has similar values when it comes to a relationship. But sadly, I feel I am becoming a minority and looking for a minority as well. I hope I'm wrong about that.

I definitely feel you. I do think that our culture is becoming more sex-driven, definitely. I also do not go for one night stands and other general hit-it-and-quit-it situations, but as in other situations, I have a moderate stance. I'm no "no-sex-before-marriage" nazi. I would optimately want to have sex only in a monogamous relationship.

And as to women who enjoy the looser sexaul culture, I don't think it's sad. One of my best friends (a female friend who has become almost like "one of the guys"... long story...) has casual sex every once in a while, and she has no problems because of it. She has no hang-ups and just lives her life... I admire her for that.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 2:19 pm

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
Thanks to Lee,

See, I knew this would be a good thread  Wink



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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 4:01 pm

Soooo freakin true. Well, most of them anyway.

I agree with a few above, hints suck. If you want something, just say it and chances are we'll do it for you.
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 4:26 pm

I don't see how this applies to 99% of the members here.

It is definantly true though! I was pleasantly surprised as most lists like these are crap.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 5:36 pm

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 20):
Ill stick by what I said though, Guys are confusing, they don't give a clear enough message and leaves you in my position!

The problem is guys are scared to say how they feel incase they say something they shouldnt. Just like you are experiencing now, you fancy him, but are scared to say anything incase it upsets him and scares him off.

Guys think the same way, we dont say what we think incase it scares them away. Instead we drop hints.

You need to work on your friendship and get past the point of worrying what the other thinks, start sharing lots of secrets with each other, and learn to trust each other. Once you are comfortable talking to each other, you will be able to tell him anything u want, even how you feel about him, without worrying about how he will react.

Likewise when he tells you things, learn not to get upset with him if he says something that you wish he hadnt said, instead thank him for being honest with you, and find a way to deal with what he said, by explaining how it makes you feel, show him it doesnt upset you.
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 5:47 pm

Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 32):
The problem is guys are scared to say how they feel incase they say something they shouldnt.

Exactly. In most cultures, I think, guys are strong and women are, ummm, less strong. And we play into it. It's hard for a guy to just come out and express his feelings because he doesn't want to be overwhelming and demanding, as if expecting a commitment. That's why it's important to talk it out. Also, as Nighthawk has suggested, take it slowly. Fools rush in.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 5:55 pm

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
17. Guys are very open about themselves.

Nope.....

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.



Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

sooooooo true!
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 6:00 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 8):
and not use me merely as a pleasure device

(sings) Oh Lord, it's hard to be humble...

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 8):
I would find comfort in waking up everyday, knowing that someone loves me. If anyone wants a piece of BAB's heart,

Will someone please pass me the violin smilie, please.  cry 

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 19):
Of course, what the hell do I know? I've been divorced for a year and a half.

Bitter, party of one...!

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 6:09 pm

Wow, It's all true!!! If only they gave that out to girls as 'the mini bible to guys'.

Quoting Lazarus31 (Reply 5):
When my mates f up i always tell them, well,we'll never be perfect but what we can do is learn from our mistakes and try not to f up again.

But unfortunately we never listen  Wink

Quoting ZKSUJ (Reply 30):
If you want something, just say it and chances are we'll do it for you.

Yes very true. Guys will do ANYTHING a girl asks. Sort of like a genie...aye genie!  Wink

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 6:23 pm

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 35):
(sings) Oh Lord, it's hard to be humble...

...when you're perfect in every way. And, JG, I guarantee, I can't wait to look in the mirror, because I get better looking each day.  yes 

Quoting JGPH1A (Reply 35):
Will someone please pass me the violin smilie, please.

Let's hope we don't have connecting rooms in KEF!

BAB Big grin
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 6:53 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 37):
...when you're perfect in every way. And, JG, I guarantee, I can't wait to look in the mirror, because I get better looking each day.

Thats not a mirror, its a poster of me.....
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 7:20 pm

Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 38):
Thats not a mirror, its a poster of me.....

That's simply not possible. I am certain I saw my own sexy-self. What you imply is that there may be someone else in the world as attractive as I. In such an event, surely all time would stop and the earth would be flung from its axis, ending mankind as we know it.

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 7:30 pm

That's gotta be the lamest list I have ever seen. I feel like it should be published with pictures of pink bunny rabbits or something.
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:42 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 37):
Let's hope we don't have connecting rooms in KEF!

It's OK, I've contacted the hotel, and I've asked for you to be moved to a seperate wing. Of another hotel. In Bangladesh.

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 37):
, JG, I guarantee, I can't wait to look in the mirror, because I get better looking each day.

Cataracts can be so cruel.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:49 pm

Quoting Cadet57 (Reply 1):

Best ones are.... hehe I reckon you read till the 10th and then you were bored thats why your collection ends there....
Spot on?


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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Fri Nov 10, 2006 9:54 pm

Quoting BaylorAirBear (Reply 39):
In such an event, surely all time would stop and the earth would be flung from its axis, ending mankind as we know it.

What you fear has already began, although scientists are still convinced its down to "Global Warming". One day they will realise what has really happened....
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:29 am

Quoting Jush (Reply 42):

Nope. Like I said, I agree with them all. Those are the ones that stand out. There were more, but im sure it wouldent be prudent to repost 3/4 of the list.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sun Nov 12, 2006 2:49 am

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 13):
Personally, I think the thread-starter needs to change his tampon. Wink

Merely a topic starter, not a reason to change feminine care products, which I assume you use because you make comments like that one.  Wink

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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sun Nov 12, 2006 9:01 am

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

This happens every single time.

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

 cry 

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 18):
But my nerves in these cases shoot to hell.... I just need more confidence and the right time to actually face him

I know exactly how you feel. There are a couple of occasions that I didn't "make my move" and have regretted it. In my experience, rejection is easier to live with that the constant refrain of "what if..." So go for it, what have you go to loose? It could be fun! cheerful 

Quoting FlyDeltaJets87 (Reply 24):
It's becoming more difficult to find such a woman because today's culture is becoming more and more sex-driven and leaning more and more towards lust and sex rather than a real relationship.

Yes!! Thank you!!! I thought I was just being cynical but this proves that at least I am not alone.
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:51 pm

Quoting ATAIndy (Thread starter):
49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

In some ways yes, in others no, it is nice to dream what a girl is thinking, but in reality, its probably the total oppersite, and if youve just given your left nut to hear something you dont, then you will in a short period of time loose the will to continue.............
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:08 pm

Quoting ShyFlyer (Reply 46):
I know exactly how you feel. There are a couple of occasions that I didn't "make my move" and have regretted it. In my experience, rejection is easier to live with that the constant refrain of "what if..." So go for it, what have you go to loose? It could be fun!

Thats exactly what I thought, whats the worst they say, 'No', then you move on, so after 3 months of worrying and crying because of lack of confidence, I finally asked the question and guess what....NO was the answer!!!!

The only trouble is, I havent found another girl quite like her,

I hate this part of life, its so easy to say, 'move on', in reality its bl**dy difficult
 
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RE: 52 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys

Mon Nov 13, 2006 2:18 am

Quoting Kazzie (Reply 22):
Mainly because I drop so many hints, flirt and a few other reasons etc.. So if he knows then why is it so complicated...

Kaz, first of all good luck! Secondly, guys don't get subtle hints. Guys don't get obvious hints. We pretty much need it spelled out for us  Silly

If we do get the hints and flirting, then the first thing asked is, "What does this mean?" We then read either way too much or way too little into it. Trust me, we're just as confused, if not more confused, about the entire thing as y'all are! Anyway, take care

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