rolfen
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I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 6:35 am

I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself.
Help!
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 6:37 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself.

Dude, suck it up and enjoy life. Face it: every relationship you will be in will fail until you find the right one.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 6:40 am

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 1):
Face it: every relationship you will be in will fail until you find the right one.

 checkmark 
So try new positions with this new one.

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 1):
Dude, suck it up and enjoy life

I don't think he is seeing a man.  confused 
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 6:49 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 2):
I don't think he is seeing a man.

Not what I was trying to say. All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 6:52 am

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 4):
Not what I was trying to say. All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!

I took the "suck it up " comment in a literal sense.  

Me being silly and naughty again.   

[Edited 2007-04-17 23:53:21]
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rolfen
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:01 am

haha... "suck it up"
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:05 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
everytime that happens I end up getting dumped

So how is this person similar to previous ones? How is this person different than previous ones?
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:13 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 5):
Me being silly and naughty again.

Fly, you and I have these characteristics ingrained in our personality. Just accept it.

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 4):
All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!

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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:17 am

Quoting Superfly (Reply 5):
Me being silly and naughty again.

Fly, that is one of your good qualities.....enjoy it!!! hehe

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself. Help!

Hey, life isn't always perfect....it's what you make it!!!!

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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:28 am

Quoting Vaporlock (Reply 8):
Fly, that is one of your good qualities.....enjoy it!!! hehe



Quoting AndesSMF (Reply 7):
Fly, you and I have these characteristics ingrained in our personality. Just accept it.

Thanks! Big grin
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:40 am

Quoting Diamond (Reply 6):
So how is this person similar to previous ones? How is this person different than previous ones?

She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.
I consider myself quite abnormal when it comes to relationships. I actually never got past 2 or 3 encounters with a girl, and that is usually enough for me to get quite attached. I then get dumped. One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space (too many messages/calls early in the relashionship). I dont know what else I could have done wrong, or could it just be lack of self confidence that is pushing them away...
anyway, wish me good luck  Smile
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:48 am

Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.

Have fun. I am.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 8:13 am

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 11):
My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....

Yeah Kmh! You go girl!!  thumbsup 
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 8:21 am

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 12):
Yeah Kmh! You go girl!!

Thanks! After all these years, I'd have never thought it possible.

On one further not, however, to Rolfen....keep a better attitude. Nobody likes a pessimist and if you've got the attitude that "everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself," you probably will get dumped. Stay positive.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 8:41 am

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10):
She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.

Hell yeah it is! Unless you prefer hyperactive youngsters.  Wink

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10):
One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space

I used to be a bit that way, so I hear you. You cannot appreciate the right person until you've been able to experience those who are not right for you. Trust that the universe is unfolding as it should. Above all else, be yourself.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 9:43 am

Just tear one off and you'll feel better.  goodvibes 
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 8:37 pm

Think positive.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 10:54 pm

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 11):
Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.

Have fun. I am.

Thanks Kmh1956, that is so kind of you.  Smile
Just wait until we finally meet. Big grin
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Wed Apr 18, 2007 10:55 pm

:o Oh wait a minute! Embarrassment

I thought you were talking about me.
Congrats anyway!  bigthumbsup 
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 5:54 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

I feel your pain, bro... why do I always have to fall for the impossible?  banghead 

Still, think positive and you'll see everything will be all right! Big grin
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 5:59 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped

Talking about a self fulfilling prophecy
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 6:15 am

Quoting JRadier (Reply 20):
Talking about a self fulfilling prophecy

I guess I'll have to think positive, like everyone else in this thread is telling me to
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 6:20 am

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 21):
I guess I'll have to think positive,

Bingo!
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 6:30 am

Love is the best and worst of human emotions. It can make you do things that you're proud of for the rest of your life, or do something that makes you cringe every time you think about it. yes 

What you will appreciate as you get older is that there is simply no substitute for real love for another human. I understand now that what my wife and I first experienced in our relationship was lust, not love. Now, 25 years later, I cannot imagine ever wanting to share my life with any other woman. I can categorically state that I love her more with each passing year. couple 
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 6:38 am

Quoting Scbriml (Reply 23):
Love is the best and worst of human emotions.

Amen to that. What a powerful and truthful definition Scbrimi.

I am lucky that I have meat mister right. Although we both work hard for our relationship we have become not only life partners, but soul mates and best friends... now thats what I call love...


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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 6:40 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Oops Rolfen,take it easy and calm down ! I hope you wont throw yourself from Raouche Big grin


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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 10:14 am

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself.
Help!

If you don't want to fall in love, why are you dating in the first place?
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 10:30 am

Hey, at least you're not in a situation where you're helplessly in love with someone and they don't feel the same way about you.  banghead 

Love pretty much sucks. Unless you're in the thick of it.
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 1:38 pm

Don't beat yourself up about a past girl. Learn to relax, don't get jealous. I am not entirely sure on this but, wasn't one of the reasons Cho Seung-hui did what he did because of his girlfriend?
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RE: I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

Thu Apr 19, 2007 4:03 pm

Better to get a partner that loves you more than you love your partner  Smile
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