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At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:34 am

The old thread was getting long. Heres the continuation of it.
Poll: At What Point In A Relationship Is Sex OK? (by Yellowstone Jul 19 2007 in Non Aviation)

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:38 am

No need to continue. The answer is ... "yesterday"
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 10:33 am

1st date works good for me.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:02 am

im going to have to say, you dont even need a relationship
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 1:26 pm

Well, going off the old thread, I used to be a "D". I'm moving towards a "C". I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. I'm not ashamed of it. (I joke with my friends that I want to lose my virginity on a Virgin Atlantic flight.  biggrin   wink  ) I want my first time to be special and with someone special. As of now, I wouldn't be upset if I had sex with only one woman in my life, regardless of whether we first started having sex before or after marriage.

Also, I don't want to be a hypocrite when I'm talking to my kids one day about not having sex at an early age.
Maybe I'm just to traditional and even though I'm only 20, "old-fashioned".
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:00 pm

What's the point for this second thread? I'd think that it could all belong in one.
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 4:03 pm

Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

When His Holiness JGPH1A says so.  pray 

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 4:17 pm

The answer is simple:
When BOTH think it is OK.
Same day they meet or on their wedding night.
Why should anybody else than the couple decide?
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:20 pm

Quoting Bofredrik (Reply 7):
The answer is simple:
When BOTH think it is OK.
Same day they meet or on their wedding night.
Why should anybody else than the couple decide?

Dead on! Why rely on somebody else's formula or platitude? You do it when it's right for both parties.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 12:30 am

Quoting FlyDeltaJets87 (Reply 4):
As of now, I wouldn't be upset if I had sex with only one woman in my life, regardless of whether we first started having sex before or after marriage.

Sorry but if you know only one woman carnally in your lifetime, woe be thy name.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 5:52 am

Quoting Aaron747 (Reply 9):
Sorry but if you know only one woman carnally in your lifetime, woe be thy name.

I had a girlfriend in high school who was my first...I hadn't dated many people, she had (and had sex before with two or three people). She was afraid that, when we got serious (and actually engaged), I would regret it later on because she had been my only one. Now that her and I have been broken up for several years and I've dated and slept with a few more people, including my current "way over my level and out of my league" girlfriend, I've realized how true she was...it's one thing to want to keep sex just to the person you are going to marry, but sex is a huge and important part of the relationship, and an unhappy sex life can cause as many problems as working too much or having too little money in a marriage...I personally think you need to know whether or not you are going to be happy with the sex, or else that could spell trouble down the road. And sure, you can be happy with the sex by having it with just one person in your lifetime but...where's the fun in that?!?!  Wink
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 7:11 am

Quoting SW733 (Reply 10):

I had a girlfriend in high school who was my first...I hadn't dated many people, she had (and had sex before with two or three people). She was afraid that, when we got serious (and actually engaged), I would regret it later on because she had been my only one.

Been there and I've been single for exactly a yr. It took us like 2 weeks before we were ready and to me it was imply a hook up. She had been with 3 or 4 guys and she was my first.

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 2:12 pm

Quoting SW733 (Reply 10):
I had a girlfriend in high school who was my first...I hadn't dated many people, she had (and had sex before with two or three people).



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 11):
She had been with 3 or 4 guys and she was my first.

Is it just me or are a lot teenage guys "firsts" with girls who HAVE been with a few guys before? Just observing what I'm reading here...  Smile
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 2:28 pm

Quoting San747 (Reply 12):
Is it just me or are a lot teenage guys "firsts" with girls who HAVE been with a few guys before? Just observing what I'm reading here...

What I'm wondering is this - how do they know the girls have had sex before??

Personally, I've never had a girlfriend want to talk about past relationships and/or hookups...
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 3:47 pm

Quoting DeltaAVL (Reply 13):

What I'm wondering is this - how do they know the girls have had sex before??

I ask. I wanna know if she is std free and spontaneous. I love to be adventurous.

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 6:37 pm

My personal rule on having sex with someone is this: Don't have sex with someone You don't know well enough to let her borrow money from You.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 7:52 pm

First date................
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:01 pm

Surely the best sex can only come after marriage....Just as long as your wife doesnt find out!!  wink 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 11:32 pm

Quoting San747 (Reply 12):
Is it just me or are a lot teenage guys "firsts" with girls who HAVE been with a few guys before?

The days of the guys having to pressure their girls into sex is gone. Women are having sex earlier and earlier, and they don't want just one or two partners anymore. Back in the day, which was a Tuesday (anyone listen to Maxim Radio? No? Oh well), it was the guys who went sleeping around and then women who just shared it for a few very special people at most...now we're all equal. Not only that, but women like to date older guys, and they end up having sex at an earlier age because of that. If a 15 year old girl dates a 20 year old guy, which is sadly pretty common, the 20 year old guy isn't gonna settle without sex, so the 15 year old is going to put out. And, as most women will admit, the first time is the hardest, and after that sex isn't so much of a big deal. So all of a sudden, at 15 they hand in their V-card, then break up with the guy because they realize a 20 year old shacking up with a 15 year old is a douchebag, and by the time they find a decent guy at 17 or 18 they've had sex with a few guys. Just my  twocents ...if anyone actually followed what the heck I was saying.
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sat Jul 28, 2007 11:40 pm

Quoting SW733 (Reply 18):
If a 15 year old girl dates a 20 year old guy, which is sadly pretty common, the 20 year old guy isn't gonna settle without sex, so the 15 year old is going to put out.

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 3:18 am

SW733, you are right. Right now the girl im getting to know is 21and i'm 20. I know a 17yr dating a 22 and and theyve been together for 3yrs. Go firgure. It bugs the shit out of me ad if I find out one of my kids (when are born) is doing that, watch out. You've earned my respect.

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 4:05 am

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 20):
know a 17yr dating a 22 and and theyve been together for 3yrs

3 years huh...sorry but when a 19 year old decides to go after a 14 year old...there are strange things afoot.

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 20):
It bugs the shit out of me ad if I find out one of my kids (when are born) is doing that, watch out

Yeah me too!

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 20):
You've earned my respect.

Woo hooooooooo.
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 4:20 am

In florida the rule is 16 to 24 which saved my ass once because she lied about her age. I say sex Is appropriate as soon as you can say her name without having to think so if you have a quick memory it is time to get it on like donkey kong.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 5:48 am

Quoting SW733 (Reply 18):
Back in the day, which was a Tuesday (anyone listen to Maxim Radio? No? Oh well),

Or as Dane Cook says, it's a Wednesday. Take that home, chew it! It's delicious...

Anyway, back to the subject at hand-

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 7:57 am

Some good mottos

If it smells like fish it's a dish, if it smells like colonge leave it alone. Big bucks no whammies!, Going down is not always a bad things. Just call me a bonanza full of doctors. And on and on and on.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:31 am

Quoting N710PS (Reply 24):
if it smells like colonge leave it alone

say what?
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:03 am

To be honest, I did not know there is a time when it is NOT ok to have sex... Outside of certain days in the month, it normally takes two to tango. If she wants it and you want it, by all means, go for it!!!  bigthumbsup 
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:17 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 25):

say what?

In other words, if she smells like a Hor do not open her barnyard door. Trust me, ive seen girls smell like this and it freaks me out when a girl smells like her fathers leather.

Also, its ok to have fun but make it interesting. Girls love a guy who is spontaneous. If anyone has any questions, send me an im and i'll be able to give my doctorly advice.

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:33 am

Quoting WunalaYann (Reply 26):
To be honest, I did not know there is a time when it is NOT ok to have sex... Outside of certain days in the month, it normally takes two to tango. If she wants it and you want it, by all means, go for it

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:36 am

Quoting N710PS (Reply 28):
Just call me Moses if shes hot enough.

Sorry but I am very  confused  now...
 
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:41 am

A few days out of a month reference was what I was pointing at. You know, when shes on that word that is also the end punctuation mark to a sentence. Maybe there was miscommunication.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:06 am

How bout when she asks you too or comes to you.? does that count?

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:34 am

Quoting WunalaYann (Reply 29):
Sorry but I am very ??? now...

Maybe a reference to parting the Red Sea, so parting a woman's legs?

Quoting N710PS (Reply 24):
Big bucks no whammies!

Dane Cook reference, right? In that case, you'll know what I'm talking about when I saw that when I go downtown on the girl, I go crazy! I bite it... You know what I do? I uppercut your taint! That's right, I'm like, "YOU LIKE IT WHEN I PUNCH YOUR TAINT?!"

If anyone thinks I'm a crazy nutjob... I'll provide the video link. The bit I just wrote down is about 18-20 minutes into it-

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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:50 am

Quoting San747 (Reply 32):
Maybe a reference to parting the Red Sea, so parting a woman's legs?

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Quoting San747 (Reply 32):
Dane Cook reference, right? In that case, you'll know what I'm talking about when I saw that when I go downtown on the girl, I go crazy! I bite it... You know what I do? I uppercut your taint! That's right, I'm like, "YOU LIKE IT WHEN I PUNCH YOUR TAINT?!"

If anyone thinks I'm a crazy nutjob... I'll provide the video link. The bit I just wrote down is about 18-20 minutes into it-

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Dead on! I like a guy who thinks like me.
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RE: At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II

Sun Jul 29, 2007 12:34 pm

Quoting San747 (Reply 32):
Maybe a reference to parting the Red Sea, so parting a woman's legs?

Duh. Allrighty. Parting the Red Sea it is, then...  Smile

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