san747
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Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:45 am

I don't know why I just thought of it...

But a fairly self-explanatory question. What's the longest romantic/sexual relationship you've been in with the opposite sex?

For me, sad to say, the longest has been a month with 2 different girls. I guess I just haven't found a keeper yet  Smile
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:46 am

DOn't worry mine is 6 months...trust me someday you will find the one
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:47 am

Quoting San747 (Thread starter):
with the opposite sex?

Nil.  silly 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:49 am

17 months in my first one, 17 and counting in my current one too.
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:57 am

Quoting Palladium (Reply 1):
DOn't worry mine is 6 months...trust me someday you will find the one

I know I will. This wasn't a self-pity thread or anything Big grin
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:00 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 2):

This would be so much better a thread if it was an Option A/B/C type of thing.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:00 am

Quoting San747 (Thread starter):

For me, sad to say, the longest has been a month with 2 different girls. I guess I just haven't found a keeper yet

San747, it'll happen when its time.

Mine was 3 months.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:08 am

Quoting STLGph (Reply 5):
This would be so much better a thread if it was an Option A/B/C type of thing.

OK, that was my mistake. Whatever romantic/sexual relationship you've had with ANYONE... What was the longest?
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:22 am

Quoting San747 (Thread starter):
the longest has been a month with 2 different girls. I guess I just haven't found a keeper yet

I had one or two very, very short ones, like 3 weeks. My current one has been around two months, and she is definitely a keeper!  cheerful 

Cheers
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:24 am

about 20 years with my right hand, and counting.
the left is only in it for about 15 years, but going strong and also counting  Wink
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:25 am

2 and a half years was the time I was "together" with my American ex-girlfriend.. however, I didn't get to see her that much because of the distance...
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:28 am

Mr. Harlot - 17 years this September.

I feel old now, and boringly settled. Right Westy?  Wink
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:36 am

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 11):
I feel old now, and boringly settled. Right Westy?

Enough liquor can cure that feeling quickly! Big grin
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:37 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 2):

 rotfl  rotfl  rotfl  rotfl  rotfl 

.. . . . . .


Eleven years with my Daughter's Mother before we split.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:47 am

I'd say probably about 3, maybe 4 weeks. And that was a very, very long time ago.

[Edited 2007-08-12 23:50:05]
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:50 am

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 12):
Enough liquor can cure that feeling quickly!

Hey! And then I have a partner ready, willing, and able....I am reminded of the advantages of marriage!  Smile
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:52 am

About 45 minutes...

The message you were about to post is too short, so is your relationship you loser...
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:04 am

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 15):
The message you were about to post is too short, so is your relationship you loser

 rotfl   rotfl   rotfl 

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:06 am

Quoting TZ757300 (Reply 17):
Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 15):
The message you were about to post is too short, so is your relationship you loser

Hey, it wasn't me who posted that...I can't take credit for Duff's humour.  Smile
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:10 am

3 years. Probably more like 2.5...because the last 6 months we were just too comfortable with the situation and it turned into a friends with benefits type thing... We ended it after we both sat down one night and talked it out. It was a shock for both of us for a coupla weeks, as we almost got back together, but it would've been for the wrong reasons. After that we remain good friends. That was...hell....3 years ago? 4?
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:19 am

36 years 10 months 30 days excluding the end date. (today) Married about a year less than that. There might have been some minor lapses during the interval but I'll never tell.

Unless you relax the definition of "relationship" to include other-than-romantic ones. In that case I was my mother's son for 56 years 1 month 23 days 'til she died, which is the only means parents have of divorcing us.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:25 am

Quoting SlamClick (Reply 20):
36 years 10 months 30 days excluding the end date. (today) Married about a year less than that. There might have been some minor lapses during the interval but I'll never tell.

I'll call first runner up. I've been keeping house with the Dragon Lady since 1973 and we were married in 1980 by a special county commissioner in Clark County, Nevada in downtown Las Vegas for $5.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:59 am

The one with my current girlfriend lasts since 2000 and is still getting stronger!  Smile

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:23 am

Nearly 11 years for me.....

AND THATS GAY YEARS !!! - THEY SAY ITS LIKE DOG YEARS.....

11 x 7 = 77 Years.......

Hows that?
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:27 am

23 years and 3 months since I met Mrs Jafa.

Seems like yesterday...yesterday was a bad day too  Smile  Smile  Smile
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:45 am

Quoting ANCFlyer (Reply 13):
Eleven years with my Daughter's Mother before we split.

Beat me by a mile ANC.

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 24):
23 years and 3 months since I met Mrs Jafa.

Congrats you even beat ANCflyer and his hat.

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 24):

Seems like yesterday...yesterday was a bad day too

Sorry to hear. Hopefully you guys worked your problems and sailed on.

My issue: Finding a girl who can tolerate me. Then we will talk about how long with me.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 9:09 am

Almost ten years with an ex from hell.  banghead 

Now three years and counting of wedded bliss with my husband.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 11:56 am

Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 26):
Almost ten years with an ex from hell

I think everyone has an ex from hell. Maybe they should all together...  Silly

I have been with the same woman for two years and that has been the longest. Hopefully it will be forever. We have an odd relationship. She travels about 2 weeks a month and lives over an hour away, so I don't see her that often. I think that is for the best. My mom and dad have been married for 34 years and my dad is gone all the time. He always was and my parents like it that way.

Quoting Bewley747 (Reply 23):
AND THATS GAY YEARS !!! - THEY SAY ITS LIKE DOG YEARS.....

I have never heard of that before.  laughing 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:02 pm

Current one (Brittany) is approaching 11 months a week from tomorrow.

Longest before Brittany was 3.5 months before we split (she was my first kiss, too). Tragedy, she was a nice girl, but I guess the old saying "opposites attract" didn't quite work out that way.

Hope all are enjoying their Sunday night/Monday.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:07 pm

Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 26):

Now three years and counting of wedded bliss with my husband.

Congrats.

Hell describes my last relationship. I know I'll find a my Michelle Flarety. It just takes time. Let me say this to people approaching 3 months.: do not mention the word shopping nor take a vacation.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:13 pm

8 years this October. Still going strong.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:31 pm

Quoting Duff44 (Reply 16):
About 45 minutes...

How the hell did that go down?

Was she by any chance a hooker?  Wink
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:36 pm

Quoting WestJetForLife (Reply 28):

I guess the old saying "opposites attract" didn't quite work out that way.

In my experience that works but only if these opposites compliment each other in any way. My last relationship lasted about 20 months although it was pretty much over 16 months in, my current one has been going on for 9 months and it's a lot healthier. My first was about 4 months...
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 12:39 pm

Me and the hands have had a long healty relationship dateing back a decade and a half nearly and many roles in the hay. Now speaking in terms of humans the count is 2.5 years and I gave her up for the children of Bombardier.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 1:57 pm

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 11):
Mr. Harlot - 17 years this September.

Wow...and the thread winner goes to.....ScarlotHarlot!

I'm a loser when it comes to relationships. 3 months is my record...and NO sex, either, which makes it worse. Things were going so well and then she abruptly ended it. She told me she wanted to take things slow, and I respected her wishes. Nice guy syndrome strikes again. Still, she gave a lot of mixed messages and I wasn't quite sure how to read them. Oh well....maybe a blessing.
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 3:34 pm

Quoting Bewley747 (Reply 23):
AND THATS GAY YEARS !!! - THEY SAY ITS LIKE DOG YEARS.....

Why?

With my current partner, almost 10½ 'gay' years. And very happy too  cloudnine 

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:24 pm

Quoting San747 (Thread starter):
But a fairly self-explanatory question. What's the longest romantic/sexual relationship you've been in with the opposite sex?

About 15 minutes, but I was very very drunk.
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:42 pm

The longest relationship I´ve ever been in is 10 months, which was my first relationship. Hopefully the relationship with my new bloke will be much much longer.
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:53 pm

Quoting Sunshine79 (Reply 37):
The longest relationship I�ve ever been in is 10 months, which was my first relationship. Hopefully the relationship with my new bloke will be much much longer.

Totally agreed. If my 1st lasted 10 months, no telling where I would be today. See my IM.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:19 pm

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 25):
Sorry to hear. Hopefully you guys worked your problems and sailed on.

It was a joke, hence the smiley's  Smile
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 9:37 pm

6 Months. Have been single for the past 2.5 years cause girls are just so fickle and shallow. I think I'll continue to wait till I find one that's not either of those two. Looks like I'll be waiting a while.
 
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 11:13 pm

Quoting Bill142 (Reply 40):
Looks like I'll be waiting a while.

Well a couple of us are.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Mon Aug 13, 2007 11:31 pm

8 and a half years with Bobo the Sperm Guy....7 of those in a miserable marriage. Divorced for almost 18 years now....
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 12:18 am

I met my wife in December 1978, we started dating officially on January 12, 1979 and got married on October 6, 1984. So it is a looooong time, I think I would have got less time for murder  Wink
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 12:26 am

2 Years for me. I am officially shit at relationships...

Saying that.. I am falling madly in love with my new guy and we have been together only a month or so...
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:45 am

Quoting Speedbirdie (Reply 44):
I am officially shit at relationships...

 checkmark 

Quoting Speedbirdie (Reply 44):
He is definitely the 'one'

I hope it is. Nothing like love....

Quoting Bill142 (Reply 40):
girls are just so fickle and shallow

They are aren't shallow, but they are impossible to figure out. That is part of the fun I guess...
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:24 am

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 42):
8 and a half years with Bobo the Sperm Guy.

I have wonder where you got that from.

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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 3:07 am

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 46):
I have wonder where you got that from

An episode of 'Friends' where Ross was talking about being a part of his son's life when his ex-wife came out as a lesbian. They told him that he'd be referred to as Bobo the Sprem Guy......for some odd reason, the name seemed to fit the ass-husband. OOPS!! EX-husband....
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 6:09 am

Quoting Bill142 (Reply 40):
girls are just so fickle and shallow. I think I'll continue to wait till I find one that's not either of those two.

You need to find a woman not a girl  Wink
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RE: Longest Relationship You've Been In?

Tue Aug 14, 2007 6:39 am

5 months for me. Maybe four because there was one month where we really didn't talk.

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