I feel I take things way to personal sometimes but I guess that is how I'm wired.
I hold grudges against people who have done things to me I thought were not fair at all. I might not show it outright but my behavior changes and I try not to be around them if I don't have too. Even though they apologized, didn't realize they did something wrong, I still get this feeling of "I can't stand you no more".
Call it a flaw or whatever lol. All the time people say "get over it", "move on" from things that hurt you. But exactly how do you do that? How do you just "get over" something?