My Grandparents neighbour faces a very odd solution.The poor guy & his parents have to deal with a negative person for over 45 years.he has an sister with a small facial scar that has mood fluctuations & abuses the family members almost every 3rd day on some pretext or another.
Anyone trying to talk to the person is insulted & abused.The family is so sad & cannot socialize as every time they speak with someone,the next day there is another abusive volley of words & tears accusing them of all the things which are not true.His sister refuses to work & the old parents do the work in the house,with partial help from the sister if the mood is ok.
The guy has tried to explain things but has not worked out.On a rare normal day,the person agrees that her behaviour is wrong,but refuses to attend counciling.His sister just does not want to socialise with anyone or marry & in case of friends,they too are insulted on the smallest doubts,so most keep away.
I suggested reading motivational books,but that did not work as per the guy,as the books were never read completely.
I really feel sad for this guy,He has not given up trying after so many years & hopes that one day things will work out & his family will be normal.But I don't think that would happen.Its over 45 years but there is no solution.
I know this is not the right place to ask for solutions,but was hoping someone could relate to this story and have a possible solution in place.