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Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 12:09 pm

So, I normally live alone, but am having a relative stay with me for the summer.

And where he lives, he has a septic system instead of city sewers and it's the custom in his house to not flush the toilet after urinating. You do flush if you defecate.

I see the nice ecological benefits of this, but frankly I just don't like opening the toilet lid and seeing some else's hours old piss. And I do have quite adequate city sewerage.

Am I right or wrong to bring it up with him?

I shared a hotel room with a lady friend that had the same custom and I also didn't like it then. She explained the whole thing to me, but I still flushed every time when I encountered the yellow toilet and every time after I finished using it, whether it was #1 or #2 or both. She never brought it up, but if she had, I was going to tell her that I just happened to crap a lot!  

Actually that friendship also went down the toilet too shortly thereafter.

I wonder if toilet habits had anything to do with it?

And it still weirds me out to think that adults have to discuss their toilet habits.

Life was so much simpler when I was living by myself.

Lord I wish silly shit like this didn't bother me so much!
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 12:23 pm

Years ago my family lived in a home that had a septic system. I don't ever remember having to leave anything lying around that way.

At work there is someone who feels it necessary to leave the brown sitting around.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 1:57 pm

Quoting Go3Team (Reply 1):
At work there is someone who feels it necessary to leave the brown sitting around.

If it's brown you have to flush it down!!!  Wow!

Seriously, though, just ask him to flush, shouldn't be too hard, he's the one who's the guest.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 1:59 pm

Quoting newark777 (Reply 2):
Seriously, though, just ask him to flush, shouldn't be too hard, he's the one who's the guest.

Indeed I agree but if I found these things easy to do I probably wouldn't be living alone!

But I'll take the plunge (so to speak) on this one and speak to him when he's back after the weekend.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:00 pm

My mum's house still has a septic tank under the front lawn. It was connected to mains sewerage years before we moved there, but we were warned not to park cars on the grass...
I'm with the OP on always flushing. Unless we're trying to get the baby to sleep and it is just a No.1, it can wait 1/2 hr until he's sound asleep, then flush it.

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Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:08 pm

Quoting Revelation (Reply 3):
Indeed I agree but if I found these things easy to do I probably wouldn't be living alone!

Haha, I guess I'm used to roommates where I can just yell down the stairs, "Who the f%#@ didn't flush the toilet!", and that would settle it.  
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:32 pm

While I can understand people following the if it's yellow, keep it mellow; if it's brown flush it down approach for their own homes (whether it's connected to a septic system or even a town sewer (some do this to save on their water bill)); what galls me is when they apply this practice at either a public toilet or a toilet at either a business or office establishment. After a while, the stench of remaining urine in an unflushed toilet gets a bit much.

While some think that they may be saving the planet by practicing this outside of their home; the reality is that, after a while, such practice in a public or business facility can create a potential health hazard.

IMHO, the rule should be; at a public place or business establishment, FLUSH AT ALL TIMES!

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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:33 pm

Quoting Revelation (Thread starter):
Lord I wish silly shit like this didn't bother me so much!

Probably why you are living alone?

Quoting newark777 (Reply 2):
If it's brown you have to flush it down!!!

If its yellow, let it mellow!  
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:53 pm

I once had an extremely weird roommate, with no social or hygienic skills whatsoever, and even worse, he was the cheapest bastard I ever met in my life (yet he went to a very expensive school and his dad was a NASA shuttle engineer   ). Anyways he wouldn't flush the toilet after taking a leak. To make things worse, he'd wait after pissing about 3 times before he ever flushed. I asked him nicely, on thre differrent occasions, to flush it, every time. It was just disgusting to walk into the bathroom and have 8hr-old piss stinking up the place   . His excuse was that "he was being considerate with us by saving money in water costs by not flushing"    Anyways, the fourth time I ran into that stuff in the toilet I just went completely bezerk. I stormed into his room yelling at the top of my lungs right in his face pretty much threatening to kill him if he ever did it again.

Not only did I nearly make him poop his pants, but he NEVER forgot to flush again. 

Also, I know plenty of people that have septic systems and nobody leaves piss sitting there for hours. Everybody flushes.

I can't think of any real, valid and strong reason to not flush.
 
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:07 pm

Another "every-time flusher" checking in. Quite a few people in my extended family have septic systems and they too flush every time.

I think the only time(s) I haven't flushed liquid waste down was when the water was shut off.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:08 pm

Quoting PHLBOS (Reply 6):

IMHO, the rule should be; at a public place or business establishment, FLUSH AT ALL TIMES!

Thanks for your support, brother!

Quoting Airportugal310 (Reply 7):
Probably why you are living alone?

Yes, probably why, but I'm less sure that it's a good thing than I used to be.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:19 pm

At my buddies cabin we have to follow this rule. And this is because in the summer when it does not rain too much the water reserve gets really low. Anything under 50% we follow that rule, if it's above 50% or if there is lots of rain in the forecast we flush all the time.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:27 pm

Quoting ShyFlyer (Reply 9):
I think the only time(s) I haven't flushed liquid waste down was when the water was shut off.

Or back in high school when you didn't want to wake the whole family up when you come home late at night.  
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:57 pm

Well, you're the host; he's your guest...he has to play by your rules.

What I really hate is when a person tells you to flush (because apparently, teenage leaks, especially male ones, smell worse than adult   ) but then leaves their leaks... 

Why is it that some people criticize others when they forget to flush but they can't be criticized when they forget?  
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:20 pm

Quoting newark777 (Reply 12):
Or back in high school when you didn't want to wake the whole family up when you come home late at night.

Where I lived as a teenager was quite wooded, so I'd pee in the woods before sneaking in!  

Hmm maybe I can teach my relative to pee in the woods?   
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:24 pm

Quoting Revelation (Reply 14):
Where I lived as a teenager was quite wooded, so I'd pee in the woods before sneaking in!

You're lucky, there's nothing more terrifying than peeing in public and seeing headlights coming down the road. Thankfully I was never busted, but I should have on many occasions.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:32 pm

I really prefer when my bathroom doesn't smell like a gas station mensroom. There isn't much that is worse than the smell of stale piss.


I suppose in the OP's case he should enforce the maxim that the relative is his guest and he should flush the toilet each time..... or at the very least not eat asparagus for the duration of the summer.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:50 pm

Quoting Revelation (Reply 10):
Yes, probably why, but I'm less sure that it's a good thing than I used to be.

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Fri Jun 04, 2010 7:24 pm

Quoting Airportugal310 (Reply 17):
I live with a roommate, many times I wish I could afford not to

I've been divorced almost 10 years now and have lived single since then.

At first I thought it was a bad thing, then I thought it was a great thing, now I'm trending towards thinking it's not such a great thing.

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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 10:24 pm

This may sound gross but I've never flused the toilet in my entire life.
 
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 11:31 pm

Quoting Revelation (Thread starter):
And where he lives, he has a septic system instead of city sewers and it's the custom in his house to not flush the toilet after urinating. You do flush if you defecate.

OK, he needs either a new septic tank or a bigger one for where he lives then!   
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Fri Jun 04, 2010 11:39 pm

Quoting PHLBOS (Reply 6):
FLUSH AT ALL TIMES!

Yeah..thats the rule in our house. Also, toilets here have a dual flush system..with a smaller quantity of water used for anything thats yellow and the larger (normal) flush used for brown stuff.

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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Sat Jun 05, 2010 12:03 am

Quoting wingman (Reply 19):
This may sound gross but I've never flused the toilet in my entire life.

How so? Do you crap outside?  

As for me, I live in a house where somebody doesn't do it when they pee, but i'm not sure who it is. I do it regardless if it's a 1 or 2 though, there's nothing worse than walking in on old piss. It's alright if you live alone, but when it's somebody elses piss, it's far worse.
 
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Sat Jun 05, 2010 4:42 am

I always flush every time.

However, the wife is a creature of habit and childhood habits are not easily broken. Her dad did their bathroom and something went wrong with the plumbing whereby if you flushed the toilet, there was no hot water left for the shower - it went down the loo...... (why the problem was never remedied Im not too sure!!!) Anyhow, the solution was to flush after the shower.

I learned about this plumbing balls up as still, 4 years after she moved out, she still occasionally forgets to flush - meaning to do it after the shower, but forgetting. Thats gross, particularly as it may not only be #1 or #2, but may even be #3......I can deal with blood, but there is no worse way to start the day than that...      
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Sun Jun 06, 2010 8:17 pm

I agree that people who do not flush are gross.

I think there is a form of exhibitionism in people who don't flush after taking a dump. I knew a guy like that. He thought it was funny that other people would have to look at his crap.

Another form of this are guys who refuse to use deodorant and stink up the place with BO after getting sweaty. They say that it's "Just the smell of manhood". Yuck!

People who act like this are just lazy slobs who love to make excuses like this to get a rise out of others.
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Mon Jun 07, 2010 10:57 pm

Just joking adj 1992...the title says "not flusing the toilet". I know what flushing the toilet means and I do it daily. But "flusing the toilet"??, not sure what exactly our friend Revelation is trying to reveal..
 
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RE: Friday Stupid Thread: Not Flusing The Toilet

Mon Jun 07, 2010 11:22 pm

Thats disgusting and unsanitary.

My house is on septic, and I never leave anything around.

Urine is not odourless!

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