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I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 4:04 pm

Just a self gloss.... I proposed yesterday to the woman of my dreams at the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris. We are having such a great time. Well, about time to head off to dinner.


Cheers

Chris
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 4:28 pm

Being engaged only means one thing: That you have to give back gifts you've received from the partner in case you do not marry.

Do not throw away any receipts.


        


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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 4:30 pm

Quoting flyingturtle (Reply 1):
Being engaged only means one thing: That you have to give back gifts you've received from the partner in case you do not marry.

And in what world does that ever happen?
 
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 4:32 pm

Gonna beat Doc to this one:

How romantic, on top of the eiffel tower though  I hope you and the soon-to-be Mrs. DFWHeavy (oh god that sounds bad) have a wonderful life!
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 4:51 pm

Quoting kiwirob (Reply 2):
And in what world does that ever happen?

In ours.

To be engaged is a promise to marry. And promises can be broken.

Being engaged is, in law, only one thing - a safeguard against making fruitless expenses, for example for making gifts and organizing the marriage celebration.


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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 5:05 pm

Quoting DFWHeavy (Thread starter):
I proposed yesterday to the woman of my dreams at the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris.

You fool...I'm sorry, I meant "Congratulations! I wish you both all the best!"
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 5:33 pm

Congrats...

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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 5:40 pm

Quoting PHX787 (Reply 3):
Gonna beat Doc to this one:

Nooooooo!!!   

Well, I was raised Jewish and we consider it very bad luck to congratulate someone on an "incomplete occasion," for lack of a better word. An engagement or a pregnancy or any other "work in progress."

So instead of cursing you with congratulations, I will wish you the best of luck and all the happiness in the world!
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 5:47 pm

If you're still in Paris and what bar, bistro or restaurant tips, let me know.... and BTW, congratulations!
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 5:48 pm

I'm going to refrain from the way of the rabble, and not offer up any witticisms or silly take on this. I am only going to say that it's great news, and I'm happy for you. Enjoy this magical time.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 6:11 pm

Quoting kiwirob (Reply 2):
And in what world does that ever happen?

Can happen. A guy I knew cancelled the engagement and asked for the ring back.


Anyway, congratulations. You could do worse than the Eiffer Tower.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 6:44 pm

Well done, DFWHeavy!

Best of luck to the two of you!
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 6:52 pm

Congrats!   

As someone who enjoys being married I'll wish you all the happiness I have enjoyed over the past 44 years.
 
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 7:14 pm

Congratulations. Prepare yourself for the playbook   Just nod and say yes to most of the things she wants for the wedding . Anything you disagree with , come up with a good alterative.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 9:07 pm

Quoting Rara (Reply 10):

Can happen. A guy I knew cancelled the engagement and asked for the ring back.

That's a little different than returning all the gifts you were given by friends and family.
 
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 9:37 pm

Thanks everyone for the congrats and well wishes. We just went out for another nice dinnerat Le Bistrot Paul Bert, which is featured on one of Anthony Bourdaine's shows. A little off the beaten track fr most visitors but mouthwateringly onderful.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 9:51 pm

Quoting kiwirob (Reply 14):

These are the relevant provisions in our civil law:

http://www.admin.ch/ch/e/rs/210/a91.html

http://www.admin.ch/ch/e/rs/210/a92.html

I sometimes get confused looks when I explain to friends the legal implications of being engaged. They just think it's normal to be engaged, because, err, it's part of marriage.


Anyway - good luck to DFWHeavy and his counterpart!


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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 10:10 pm

The Eiffel tower is pretty tall....just saying...   

congrats      
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Thu May 16, 2013 11:27 pm

Quoting flyingturtle (Reply 16):

These are the relevant provisions in our civil law:

Ah I thought you meant you had to give the gifts back to the people who gave them to you, my mistake.
 
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Mon May 20, 2013 12:25 am

Best of luck to you and the ole' ball n' ch... I mean your fiance.  
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Mon May 20, 2013 12:34 pm

Haha.. thanks again everyone.. finally made it home and back to the grind of work.

We are two peas in a pod and I'm excited to see how the rest of our life plays out. Now I get to plan and book a Wedding destination and/or Honeymoon for next year. This is the exciting part for me  
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Mon May 20, 2013 4:49 pm

May I suggest Bermuda. Heaven on Earth. I went there for my honeymoon.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Mon May 20, 2013 5:07 pm

You certainly can suggest Bermuda. I will definitely look into it and it isn't too far.
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RE: I'm Engaged!

Tue May 21, 2013 6:43 am

Quoting DFWHeavy (Reply 20):
We are two peas in a pod and I'm excited to see how the rest of our life plays out. Now I get to plan and book a Wedding destination and/or Honeymoon for next year. This is the exciting part for me

haha yes! The future wife plans the wedding and the current aviation geek (aren't we all? ) gets to plan the getaway. Bermuda, St. Maarten (though I do believe the bride might be competing with Maho beach for your attention... lol), Jamaica, Cayman Islands, Virgin Islands are all within a short distance of the US. Or there's Tahiti, Seychelles, Brazil, Canary Islands, etc. if you're looking for something a bit further away (though not necessarily more expensive if you do your homework). Best of luck to you.
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