Latinplane and VirginA340 > Sorry if you understand me wrong! I didn't want to hurt your feelings or anything. Maybe because English isn't my first language, but I surely didn't mean to make a "joke" or anything about something this serious and tragic. I only commented on Latinplane because I first thought that he considered Neerja Bhandots perishing MORE tragic because she was said to be good looking. While she proves the real beauty is only in the heart. I was a bit upset about the impression she was judged by her looks by Latinplane.
Sorry if I hurt your feelings, it surely was not meant so. Although I'm happy enough not to have lost freinds or family that way, I think I can imagine the pain involved, so that's why I never make jokes of it, and that's why I reacted to Latinplane in the first place, because I first thought (mistakenly) he'd care about 'sexist' remarks while it could not have been more off-topic.
So in the end, I think we all three feel the same about this tragedy, and hope stuff like that never happens to anyone.
(I'll also send this to you personally)
nobody has ever died from hard work, but why take the risk?