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MCOflyer
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Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:10 am

I was talking to my fellow co worker about an Indian girl I have an interest for. He said Indian woman do not date unless you have the fathers or families permission. Is this true or is it a false statement. The girl I like looks to be Indian and is a bank teller. I would rather know first than to find out the hard way.

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:25 am

I went out with an Indian girl for quite some time. Never asked her parents permission. I got along quite well with her parents though. Granted her family was very much liberal in terms of Indian traditions. I would say just go ahead and ask, if she needs you to ask her father (which I highly doubt) then she'll tell you.
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:42 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
He said Indian woman do not date unless you have the fathers or families permission.

Not true. It depends on how liberal the family is. However, you need to make sure that you have a good relationship with her parents because the family unit is really important in Indian culture.
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:09 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
The girl I like looks to be Indian

Are you sure she's not Pakistani? Or Afghanstani? Or Bangladeshi? Assuming she's Indian could backfire in a bad way.
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:11 am



Quoting AsstChiefMark (Reply 3):
Assuming she's Indian could backfire in a bad way.

That's true. Just ask her out and figure out her background somewhere along the way. Don't ask her out and say you'll take her to a "great Indian restaurant" you know of, besides, that's a cliche move anyhow.
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:25 am

She could be Guyanese or Trinidadian - many Bank tellers in NYC are because of a large community in Brooklyn. Don't be afraid to ask her out! I'm sure she'll let you know if there are any family issues involved.

Here's a good date idea:

1. Go grab a pizza and order the Jalapeno topping. Eat without flinching.  hot 
2. Catch a movie afterwards - "Harold and Kumar go to Guantanamo Bay"

Ok - just kidding!  Wink

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:29 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
He said Indian woman do not date unless you have the fathers or families permission.

Not always true. Generally Indians overseas are open minded.

Quoting AsstChiefMark (Reply 3):
Are you sure she's not Pakistani? Or Afghanstani? Or Bangladeshi? Assuming she's Indian could backfire in a bad way.

 checkmark 

Find out if she is really from India. They may be of Indian origin, but they don't think they're Indian. So if you can..find out and good luck!
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:36 am

I have never dated a Indian women, but I have dated Russian. Russian women are very intelligent, passionate, and errr.....how do you say stubborn? I have seen many pretty and smart Indian women, but I have the impression they have the same Russian fire!

I hope to date one someday and see if they are similar.  Smile
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:57 am



Quoting Mdsh00 (Reply 2):
Not true. It depends on how liberal the family is.

Yep, and that varies on family to family

Quoting Fumanchewd (Reply 8):
and errr.....how do you say stubborn?

yes, yes, yes

Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
Indian girl I have an interest for

what type of interest, I think that family part is being overplayed because I dont think this is about any serious commitments.
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:27 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
I was talking to my fellow co worker about an Indian girl I have an interest for. He said Indian woman do not date unless you have the fathers or families permission. Is this true or is it a false statement. The girl I like looks to be Indian and is a bank teller. I would rather know first than to find out the hard way.

This thread is worthless without pictures.  Smile

Just be yourself and don't feel like you have to walk on egg-shells just because she is Indian. She'll love, respect and admire you for being yourself just as any other women would.

Now let's see some pics.  Silly

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:42 am

Just out of curiosity, would she happen to look like this?

If so, I have a tremendous amount of respect for you.  Wink

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:53 am



Quoting Superfly (Reply 10):
This thread is worthless without pictures.

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 10:55 am



Quoting Superfly (Reply 11):

If so, I have a tremendous amount of respect for you.

Have mercy!
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:50 pm



Quoting Superfly (Reply 10):

A little darker skin and add a round glasses then yes. She is a very beautiful person.

My problem is I do not know how to approach her when she is only works in the teller position. I do not want to scare her but do I walk into the bank and ask to speak to her?

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:43 pm



Quoting MCOflyer (Thread starter):
I would rather know first than to find out the hard way.

Just ask how big her teepee is.

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 13):
I do not want to scare her but do I walk into the bank and ask to speak to her?

Nah, you don't bug her on her work time. Do a transaction with her, and slide over your telephone number to her.
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:17 pm

For the record, Indian chicks dig cars with big rig steering wheels.
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:35 pm

MCOflyer,

First, don't mention a.net. Second, if you don't know that she is Indian, you might want to get to know her a little better. Remember, it is her job to be nice you. Next time you go in try to strike up a conversation with her, but keep the topic shallow.
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sat Jan 12, 2008 11:09 pm



Quoting Go3Team (Reply 14):
Do a transaction with her, and slide over your telephone number to her.

Hand over a note to a bank teller? It'll set off the alarm and everyone will hit the floor...
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 1:19 am

Indian and Middle Eastern women are beautiful! I dated an Indian girl my entire freshman year of high school. The family IS very important to Indians and it's important they like you. The girl's family really liked me, and her mother was like, THE BEST southern Indian cook. Always headed over to their house after school to eat indian food, now I can't go one week without it!

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 3:42 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 13):
My problem is I do not know how to approach her when she is only works in the teller position. I do not want to scare her but do I walk into the bank and ask to speak to her?



Quoting Comorin (Reply 17):
Hand over a note to a bank teller? It'll set off the alarm and everyone will hit the floor...

If i were you MCO, I would practice having a shower without dropping the soap  Wink

Asking a woman you have ever spoken out for a date is stalking in some people's eyes.....

Why not talk to some nice girls at a trucking show??
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 3:57 am



Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 19):
f i were you MCO, I would practice having a shower without dropping the soap Wink

 rotfl 
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 5:11 am



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 13):
I do not know how to approach her when she is only works in the teller position. I do not want to scare her but do I walk into the bank and ask to speak to her?

Tell her you want to make a deposit.  Wink
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 7:40 am



Quoting Superfly (Reply 21):
Tell her you want to make a deposit.

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 7:57 am



Quoting Springbok747 (Reply 6):

Some very good advice there!

I work with quite a few Indian & Sri Lankan chicks, one girl I used to work with was absoultly gorgeous with a drop-dead body. All the guys on the floor drooled over her. Her boyfriend was caucasian, which did not please her parents, who wouldn't have anything to do with him. She was expected to enter into an arranged marriage. She ended up moving out of home.......
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:32 am



Quoting VonRichtofen (Reply 15):
For the record, Indian chicks dig cars with big rig steering wheels.



Quoting Superfly (Reply 21):
Tell her you want to make a deposit.



Quoting LAXspotter (Reply 22):
Tell her you want to make a deposit.

 rotfl   rotfl 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Mon Jan 14, 2008 11:06 pm



Quoting Fumanchewd (Reply 7):
Russian women are very intelligent, passionate, and errr.....how do you say stubborn?

No kidding.  banghead 

Quoting Fumanchewd (Reply 7):
I have seen many pretty and smart Indian women, but I have the impression they have the same Russian fire!

Then stay away from the Arab women.

Quoting Jafa39 (Reply 19):
If i were you MCO, I would practice having a shower without dropping the soap Wink

Asking a woman you have ever spoken out for a date is stalking in some people's eyes.....

Why not talk to some nice girls at a trucking show??

 rotfl 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Mon Jan 14, 2008 11:18 pm



Quoting VonRichtofen (Reply 15):
For the record, Indian chicks dig cars with big rig steering wheels.

Perhaps in the middle of nowhere. Most Indian and Indian-American girls in NYC are probably on the preppie/India-Euro trashy/trendy side. Of course this applies to only ethnic Indians and Indo-American.

I echo some sentiments. Find out her exact ancestry. She would have different family backgrounds and/or interests if she was raised in Guyana, Suriname, Trini, etc.
 
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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Mon Jan 14, 2008 11:22 pm



Quoting Kiramakora (Reply 26):

I appreciate the advice. Next time I shall ask and see what she says.

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RE: Question About Dating An Indian Women

Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:10 am

Here's what you do. Go into the bank to make a deposit. Slip a snowglobe in with the deposit. it works every time.


How'd that take 27 posts?

In all seriousness, make sure you know enough about this woman before asking her out, most importantly regarding her current marital status. It sounds as if you may have just seen her as you went in to do banking, and if so, it may be a bit risky to ask her out out of the blue. If you know her through other means, and she's availible, go for it!

Oh, and make sure Big D is pizza stain-free for the big date!
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