|Quoting Vikkyvik (Reply 47):|
If my best friend had kept that from me for a year, I'd have some serious reservations about calling him my best friend. Not because of any "bros before hos" slogan or whatever, but just because of what a best friend is supposed to be all about, irrespective of gender.
and i told him this..i asked him as to why he didnt tell me..he kept hinting at what really was going on, but i couldnt see it. I guess he didnt want to lose her trust because then he couldnt glean any info from her. Every fight me and her had, he knew about it. He kept trying to steer me away from her, but i didnt want to listen. In a way he was telling me with out really telling me what was going on.
|Quoting AirframeAS (Reply 48):|
The last relationship I was in.....it was a huge, HUGE nightmare for 8-9 months after the actual break-up. I finally stopped talking to her after that. And that gave me a huge sense of freedom!
how was it a nightmare? im not even talking to her anymore and i still feel like complete crap...its been a month almost too .