Quoting AA7295 (Reply 236): You may. I think it looks aesthetically better. |
It must suck to feel so insecure about something that an acceptable solution to it must be to cut part of it off...
But hey, its your body and your choice
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Quoting PanHAM (Reply 233): But there are other, religious based mutilations, what if next ritual tribe marks are demanded to become legal? Or, tattoos for under aged? |
Quoting Acheron (Reply 250): It must suck to feel so insecure about something that an acceptable solution to it must be to cut part of it off... |
Quoting DeltaMD90 (Reply 252): The same could be said about applying make up, piercing ears, etc, all done to "look better." Not always to defeat insecurity. But can you really blame some of us? I have seen my cut penis all my life and didn't even know what an uncut one looked like until literally a few years ago. Of course I'm gonna think mine looks better. But again, gonna let my son choose for himself (if I ever have one) |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 253): In America where most males are circumcised, why put your son through the torture. |
Quoting curtisman (Reply 255): Also, those who say circumcised are less sensitive - very very wrong! |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 256): You have no way of proving this unless you had it done after you were sexually active. |
Quoting DeltaMD90 (Reply 252): The same could be said about applying make up, piercing ears, etc, all done to "look better." Not always to defeat insecurity. |
Quoting einsteinboricua (Reply 249): -No benefit over uncut (other than reduced HIV transmission) |
Quoting curtisman (Reply 255): healthier, cleaner, and a few other reasons. |
Quoting 777way (Reply 247): ^ Could be, but I hate ugly looking things, so if I had bad teeth and a hooked nose and bats ears those would get fixed, so why not that ugly looking bit of skin? |
Quoting flipdewaf (Reply 261): Quoting einsteinboricua (Reply 249): -No benefit over uncut (other than reduced HIV transmission) Really? Reduced HIV transmission? Never ehard that before. |
Quoting Acheron (Reply 259): Heck, I have a more "valid" reason for getting it done(frenulum breve) and I'm looking for solutions that don't involve circumcision. |
Quoting 777way (Reply 247): I had bad teeth |
Quoting 777way (Reply 247): hooked nose |
Quoting 777way (Reply 247): bats ears |
Quoting DeltaMD90 (Reply 244): |
Quoting curtisman (Reply 255): And comments about this being mutilation - the word does not fit - this is not mutiliation. |
Quoting GST (Reply 267): It is a technical term that does not necessarily relate to a negative effect. As DocLightning explained upthread, an entirely successful cosmetic surgical procedure is mutilation. In the same light, circumcision IS mutilation. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 268): Because that is how it occurs to YOU! It does not occur as "mutilated" to someone who is circumcised. I even doubt a medical professional would refer to a cut penis as "mutilated". Talk about a way to dramatize your beliefs! Personally, I view a cut penis as "optimized" in every way. Because that is how it occurs to me! |
Quoting curtisman (Reply 269): It definitely is not mutilation. |
Quoting 777way (Reply 265): Disfigurement? I have yet to see a disfiigurred circumcised penis, one in a few thousands maybe, so rare. |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 271): Unless you're an active gay man I doubt you would have seen enough penis's to make that statement. Pretty sure gay men, Islam and Pakistan do not belong in the same sentence. |
Quoting Pellegrine (Reply 272): Excuse me? There are plenty of gay Muslims, and plenty of gay men in Pakistan. |
Quoting Pellegrine (Reply 272): Excuse me? There are plenty of gay Muslims, and plenty of gay men in Pakistan. |
Quoting PanHAM (Reply 275): LOL, once in a car in Lahore, my hosts started laughing and I asked why. There was a "woman" walking on the side walk ahead and he/she was a transvestite. I even think, from what I understood, they have a place in this bizarre society. Could well be the same for gay males as well. |
Quoting flipdewaf (Reply 276): Aren't they employed by the government to embarrass people into paying their taxes |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 274): We've made progress, except for when someone calls a cut penis mutilated. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 274): We've made progress, except for when someone calls a cut penis mutilated. |
Quoting einsteinboricua (Reply 279): Disfigurement or injury by removal or destruction of a conspicuous or essential part of the body. |
Quoting ACJFLYER (Reply 281): What irritates me about all of this is that so many people are screaming that its the child's choice and that the parents shouldn't make that decision but when AA7295 says that he wants to get circumcised the same people jump down his throat saying how stupid he is. |
Quoting ACJFLYER (Reply 281): There shouldn't be a debate about this. Its a very simple solution - if you think that children should have a choice then don't circumcise your children when they are born, but that same freedom that lets you choose that is the freedom that allows others to circumcise their children when they are born. |
Quoting ACJFLYER (Reply 281): If your parents decided to circumcise you then why harp on something that has been done and there is no way for you to go back and change. It's ridiculous. |
Quoting ACJFLYER (Reply 281): but when AA7295 says that he wants to get circumcised the same people jump down his throat saying how stupid he is. |
Quoting ACJFLYER (Reply 281): What irritates me about all of this is that so many people are screaming that its the child's choice and that the parents shouldn't make that decision but when AA7295 says that he wants to get circumcised the same people jump down his throat saying how stupid he is. Grow up! If you are all about letting people decide then let them decide and respect their opinion. |
Quoting AA7295 (Thread starter): As an uncircumcised male, I am totally for it. I hate being uncircumcised and am seriously considering having the chop. I find it both aesthetically unattractive not to mention I got Ballanitis and a UTI (both in Thailand!) and the doctor said my chances of getting both would have been reduced had I been circumcised. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 4): In my situation I wish my parents had circumcised me as a baby because now, if I do get a circumcision, I have to go to hospital and have surgery and that is at least 3 days out of action (not to mention the other type of action!). |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 8): I thought I was unclear. The point is the surgery is pretty intense and is ALOT easier when done as a baby. The very fact of waiting until they are an adult to decide if they want to be circumcised is going to cause a lot of people to remain uncircumcised purely for the fact that they don't want surgery. This is despite that SOME people may still want to be circumcised. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 73): I asked because a circumcised penis looks aesthetically better (in my opinion). An uncut penis is just gross.... GROSS! |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 234): Well I'm getting a circumcision..... CUT PENISES ALL THE WAY!!! (And I wish I was cut at birth!!) |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 236): Quoting kiwirob (Reply 235): May I ask why? You may. I think it looks aesthetically better. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 238): Quoting kiwirob (Reply 237): Probably one of the stupidest reasons for getting cut I've ever heard of. You're 100% correct. It is stupid that I am getting it done at my age. I wish my parents had made this decision when I was young. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 238): I wish my parent's had my cut, alas, I am making that decision for myself. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 238): I am just glad I live in a country where the government will pay for it and there is not stupid court dictating what I (or my parents could have done when I was a baby) can do to my body. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 253): I was given the choice and I HATE that I was given this option. I wish I was cut at birth. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 253): I just wish that they had taken this ONE choice away from me and had of had me circumcised. |
Quoting AA7295 (Reply 268): Personally, I view a cut penis as "optimized" in every way. |
Quoting GST (Reply 282): Speaking for myself I am quite happy for him to decide to do it for himself for whatever reasons he deems worthy. |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 283): But his reasons for removal are trivial, he's not doing it for religious reasons, and it's not as if he has a medical need to have it chopped off like you did, removing it for aesthetics is for want of a better word stupid. |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 283): But his reasons for removal are trivial, he's not doing it for religious reasons, and it's not as if he has a medical need to have it chopped off like you did, removing it for aesthetics is for want of a better word stupid. |
Quoting prebennorholm (Reply 288): On one TV channel there was an interview with a Jew (such a man who does it, don't remember his "title"). |
Quoting GST (Reply 282): Though I do not understand the logic that brought him to his opinion it is his choice and I support that. |
Quoting GST (Reply 282): So....it's a freedom to remove the freedom of the child when they're old enough to decide? See my problem with this? |
Quoting GST (Reply 282): It is perfectly reasonable for people to be annoyed that it was done to them, for example if they can't masturbate without lube or one of many frequent effects of circumcision. |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 283): But his reasons for removal are trivial |
Quoting kiwirob (Reply 283): removing it for aesthetics is for want of a better word stupid. |
Quoting prebennorholm (Reply 288): Anyway it has been "tolerated" when done for religious reasons. Nobody has been prosecuted so far. Some politicians are jumping over each other to change that. Others are saying, wait a minute, let us have a committee to look it over before we speak out loud. On one TV channel there was an interview with a Jew (such a man who does it, don't remember his "title"). He was very angry and said that enforcing those rules would mean expelling all Jews from the country - with quite clear parallels to WW2 and nazi-Germany. He had "done" hundreds of penises and never had a problem. |
Quoting JAGflyer (Reply 295): How long until we see people suing their parents for having them circumcised? |
Quoting ME AVN FAN (Reply 291): I got circumcized at age 10 , and while the surgery was done in hospital under narcosis, the two or three weeks after were painful, complicted and most uncomfortable. Any positive advantage ? None except that the range of the penis had increase to some 5 meters ............... It nevertheless should remain legal and possible, as it is "de rigueur" among Muslims and Jews, as it is supposed to make you from a small child into a young man ! more known as a "teenager" |
Quoting 777way (Reply 297): Age 10 is quite late you are supposed to have it done right after birth. |