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TheFlyingDisk wrote:
But I just have to ask, what if the roles were reversed?
BobPatterson wrote:Please help me to understand your thoughts. What was "escalated" and by whom?
Can you describe "role reversal" as you mean it?
TheFlyingDisk wrote:BobPatterson wrote:Please help me to understand your thoughts. What was "escalated" and by whom?
Can you describe "role reversal" as you mean it?
Catcalling -> booted off the flight = escalated
Woman catcalling a male attendant = role reversal.
TheFlyingDisk wrote:But I just have to ask, what if the roles were reversed?
TheFlyingDisk wrote:BobPatterson wrote:Please help me to understand your thoughts. What was "escalated" and by whom?
Can you describe "role reversal" as you mean it?
Catcalling -> booted off the flight = escalated
Woman catcalling a male attendant = role reversal.
BobPatterson wrote:Well, I think many people would disagree that there was escalation. Escalation might have been increased or widespread catcalling.
What happened could be viewed as simple cause and effect. A man acted boorishly toward women and he was removed from the aircraft, restoring a modicum of civility. One might hope he will learn from his experience and not engage in such misconduct in the future.
Revelation wrote:She gave him a second chance to behave and he kept going, I guess he simply refused to be pussified.
Before we could do more than glare in his direction, the flight attendant removed her vest, purposely walked up to him and said, "You need to be respectful," and started to walk back to her task. He said, "C'mon, I'm just playing with you!"
As she walked to the front of the plane, the safety instruction was abandoned and she convened a conversation with her colleagues. Tense moments passed and we saw an affable-looking man board the plane and walk our way. The offensive man behind me started saying "I didn't do anything wrong! I didn't do anything wrong!"
The airline employee asked the man to gather his belongings and exit the plane.
stlgph wrote:Yes, because it totally reads he kept going with his behavior.
Oh wait, it doesn't. But yes, way to read.
stlgph wrote:And yes, go fly airline a) which has turned the safety demo into a fashion show (hiya, Southwest!) and then you can fly airline b) where such antics which were laughed at on airline a (hiya, Southwest!) and everyone had a good time on the flight and didn't need to cause a scene (hiya, Southwest!) got someone kicked off of airline b (good job, Alaska).
LeCoqFrancais wrote:Personally, I find that if the passenger only said "Ooh sexy!" and "C’mon, I’m just playing with you!" the airline/crew over-reacted. This is -in my opinion- another case of people wanting to be overly PC. Yes, people should not make sexist remarks, but people sometimes say things with sarcasm in mind which means that you should not take what that person said to the letter. And also, since when is it wrong to point to someone that you find him/her too your taste? We have come down to a world where nobody can give their opinion about religion, politics, race with out being fired at and called names. What happened to the time were you could say, with out being scared of loosing your job, that you disliked a certain nation, religion, race? People should not be racist or sexist, but people should be allowed to give their opinions about certain subjects in certain contexts with out having the fear of repercussion.
LeCoqFrancais wrote:What happened to the time were you could say, with out being scared of loosing your job, that you disliked a certain nation, religion, race?
LeCoqFrancais wrote:To simplify my previous post, I simply believe that we live in an overly PC world where people make huge drama over very minor things and where people can no longer say anything with out having to think if somebody might post what they say on Facebook or some other social media were it could affect this persons life.
Revelation wrote:stlgph wrote:Yes, because it totally reads he kept going with his behavior.
Oh wait, it doesn't. But yes, way to read.
My reading of the article (and yes, I can read, and thank you for the mockery) is that the FA saying "You need to be respectful," is giving the pax a second chance to act civilized. His non-pussified response was "C'mon, I'm just playing with you!" instead of "yeah, you're right" or even "sorry" so his penisified ass lost the chance to fly.stlgph wrote:And yes, go fly airline a) which has turned the safety demo into a fashion show (hiya, Southwest!) and then you can fly airline b) where such antics which were laughed at on airline a (hiya, Southwest!) and everyone had a good time on the flight and didn't need to cause a scene (hiya, Southwest!) got someone kicked off of airline b (good job, Alaska).
You are really reaching for straws. The AS FA needs to decide what to do based on what a WN FA would do in the same situation? Sorry, it doesn't work that way.
Bricktop wrote:It strikes me funny that people still need to be told not to be douchebags, and then complain when there are consequences.
stlgph wrote:Nah sweetie, not reaching for anything. But you just keep defending double standards and your ignorance to reality, I guess someone has to.
winginit wrote:LeCoqFrancais wrote:To simplify my previous post, I simply believe that we live in an overly PC world where people make huge drama over very minor things and where people can no longer say anything with out having to think if somebody might post what they say on Facebook or some other social media were it could affect this persons life.
So you do or you do not believe that people should be able to express their dislike for another ethnicity or religion to others without the fear of professional backlash? It's one or the other, and in your initial statement it came across as quite clear that you believed the former.
Flighty wrote:Thread is useless without pics. We are in a new era though. New hires..
By the way it sounds like the FA did the right thing. Gave him a chance to apologize.. He failed... Game over!
LeCoqFrancais wrote:I find that people, again in certain context, should be able to call my minority names with out being scared of a backlash.
PHLapproach wrote:I understand what he was joking about. Seeing the life jacket as a "sexy" piece of apparel as a joke cause clearly it's not.... It wasn't so much about her as it was the life jacket. If he said "you look good in that" he still would have been kicked off without muttering the word "Sexy".
LeCoqFrancais wrote:She went on a powertrip, that is far from being the right thing to do...
ikramerica wrote:BTW - he wasn't catcalling if you look at the context. he called out when the ugly as heck vest was put on and called it sexy. He was making fun of the freaking VEST! Are we so sensitive now that we equate making a joke about an ugly safety item to sexual assault with a minor? (see ridiculous posts above).
ikramerica wrote:Maybe he thought he was on WN? The FA would have called the vest stylish, he would have said it was sexy, she would have said thank you, I'm married, and life would have gone on....
ikramerica wrote:BTW - he wasn't catcalling if you look at the context. he called out when the ugly as heck vest was put on and called it sexy. He was making fun of the freaking VEST! Are we so sensitive now that we equate making a joke about an ugly safety item to sexual assault with a minor? (see ridiculous posts above).
Revelation wrote:And yet he wasn't on WN, and when he was asked/told to be respectful he didn't apologize, he tried to blow things off.
bennett123 wrote:Perhaps if she had responded to his second comment with, "this is no game, and if you do not behave properly, then you will be offloaded", he would have grasped the situation, which I do not think he did.
PHLapproach wrote:Third Wave Feminism will be the end of anyone's ability to just speak their mind including saying off the cuff jokes when long ago people would just not care and move along with their lives. They don't want Men to have any enjoyable things. Not to long ago, Anita Sarkeesian went to the UN to speak about what the gaming industry is doing against Women. Yup, Feminists don't want men to enjoy their alone time anymore. They'll probably begin to attack professional sports before long. Feminism is a black plague that is fueling the PC movement not just in the US but across the World now. I didn't even know or care much about it until I started learning more about what Third Wave Feminism truly means a few months ago. They vilify women who just want to stay home and raise kids. This story is a perfect example of Feminism hard at work in our culture. I understand what he was joking about. Seeing the life jacket as a "sexy" piece of apparel as a joke cause clearly it's not.... It wasn't so much about her as it was the life jacket. If he said "you look good in that" he still would have been kicked off without muttering the word "Sexy".
LeCoqFrancais wrote:Revelation wrote:And yet he wasn't on WN, and when he was asked/told to be respectful he didn't apologize, he tried to blow things off.
Maybe because there was nothing sexist in his remark? You guys are all crazy when defending the airline and F/A.
BobPatterson wrote:Would a woman find anything "sexy" about a male flight attendant demonstrating the life vest procedure? If so, I doubt it would be expressed so openly. But if that did happen, and if that flight attendant was embarrassed/offended by such public ridicule, it would not be inappropriate for the female passenger to be removed from the flight. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
LeCoqFrancais wrote:Personally, I find that if the passenger only said "Ooh sexy!" and "C’mon, I’m just playing with you!" the airline/crew over-reacted. This is -in my opinion- another case of people wanting to be overly PC. Yes, people should not make sexist remarks, but people sometimes say things with sarcasm in mind which means that you should not take what that person said to the letter. And also, since when is it wrong to point to someone that you find him/her too your taste? We have come down to a world where nobody can give their opinion about religion, politics, race with out being fired at and called names. What happened to the time were you could say, with out being scared of loosing your job, that you disliked a certain nation, religion, race? People should not be racist or sexist, but people should be allowed to give their opinions about certain subjects in certain contexts with out having the fear of repercussion.
LeCoqFrancais wrote:Revelation wrote:And yet he wasn't on WN, and when he was asked/told to be respectful he didn't apologize, he tried to blow things off.
Maybe because there was nothing sexist in his remark? You guys are all crazy when defending the airline and F/A.
LeCoqFrancais wrote:Personally, I find that if the passenger only said "Ooh sexy!" and "C’mon, I’m just playing with you!" the airline/crew over-reacted. This is -in my opinion- another case of people wanting to be overly PC. Yes, people should not make sexist remarks, but people sometimes say things with sarcasm in mind which means that you should not take what that person said to the letter. And also, since when is it wrong to point to someone that you find him/her too your taste? We have come down to a world where nobody can give their opinion about religion, politics, race with out being fired at and called names. What happened to the time were you could say, with out being scared of loosing your job, that you disliked a certain nation, religion, race? People should not be racist or sexist, but people should be allowed to give their opinions about certain subjects in certain contexts with out having the fear of repercussion.
BobPatterson wrote:Am I imagining things?
A couple of hours ago I made a post here that (I think) has disappeared. Did anyone see it?
I told how my 1973 dictionary did not contain the words "sexist" or "creep." I went on to mention that our vocabulary changes along with social changes regarding acceptable behaviors.