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Quoting ZKSUJ (Reply 3): At the end of the day, I guess if your wife/husband is independant, and is able to take care of themselves, and the commitment level from both parties is large; then it SHOULD not be too much of an issue |
Quoting Memphis (Thread starter): For all of you airline pilots, I have a question: How do you pursue your flying career while at the same time keep the home fires burning? It seems to me like it would take incredible love and discipline on both ends to make a marriage and a family work; since one has the potential to be away from home many times throughout a given year. |
Quoting AirWillie6475 (Reply 5): I would imagine guys flying the top airlines have much better chances of keeping partners since they make a lot of money. |
Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 1): Same applies for flight attendants, oil platform workers, road warriors, travelling sales people, etc.. You have to make sacrifices and always keep and open line of communication open. Absence making the heart grow fonder helps too. |
Quoting ZKSUJ (Reply 3): At the end of the day, I guess if your wife/husband is independant, and is able to take care of themselves, and the commitment level from both parties is large; then it SHOULD not be too much of an issue |
Quoting AirWillie6475 (Reply 9): COEXpilot, how's life there? Is hiring cooling down? If they keep their mins, I may be applying in a year or so. Is it possible to commute from Socal area to EWR/CLE? |
Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 8): My girlfriend is very independent. I've been with her for a year or so and the first thing I told her was that I was a pilot and that I am gone a lot. She seems to handle it very well. She's a paralegal so she is busy a lot. I just don't understand how the wifes that don't work manage being alone so much. It depends on kids i suppose. |
Quoting Jumpseatflyer (Reply 13): I'm not getting married until I get hired for corporate flying, which will keep me in one place. |
Quoting Bhmal (Reply 15): COEXPilot, Just curious if you could give me some info regarding hiring mins for COEX. I am a 1200 hr CFI/CFII with approx 150 multi in King Air 90-200/Baron. Am I anywhere close or do they need more? I assume I apply online when I get mins met? Thanks for any info! |
Quoting Bhmal (Reply 15): Just curious if you could give me some info regarding hiring mins for COEX. I am a 1200 hr CFI/CFII with approx 150 multi in King Air 90-200/Baron. Am I anywhere close or do they need more? I assume I apply online when I get mins met |
Quoting Mav75 (Reply 17): Would you prefer IAH -PSP, -BFL, -SLC, or -BOI? Or perhaps you'd rather do any of the LAX - Mexico red-eyes? |
Quoting Usair320 (Reply 21): Although im not a pilot I do know an AA pilot who flies for 3 days home for 4 days. Which to me sounds like a good deal |
Quoting HAWK21M (Reply 11): know a Few pilots that spend days away from Home.Family life to them is a Weekend Affair & at times a Monthly one. Holiday season is a Planned Vacation. But for the $$$ they get.its ok. |
Quoting SkyWest700 (Reply 22): My Father is a Captain for United Airlines and I grew up with aviation and it wasn't bad. My dad always seemed to be home at the right time and you get used to christmas on the 23rd and birthdays a little early but overall my dad did a great job with his schedules. My mom was a stay at home mom and she loved it. Raising two kids kept here busy enough. My mom and dad both knew what they were getting into and they made it work. As for me I tell every girlfriend i get on the first day that I am going to be gone three or four days out of the week. But then I make it sound better by telling them I have three or four days off with absolutly nothing to do but spend time with them. Some of the girls have taken it better than others though that is why Im holding off on marriage. |
Quoting Jumpseatflyer (Reply 13):
I'm not getting married until I get hired for corporate flying, which will keep me in one place. I guess I'll see how that plan is going in 8-10 years. |
Quoting Usair320 (Reply 21):
Although im not a pilot I do know an AA pilot who flies for 3 days home for 4 days. Which to me sounds like a good deal. |
Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 10): The socal area is definitely going to be tough. Every flight out there is FULL. Commuting is a bitch. I assume you have read the list of risks. |
Quoting AirWillie6475 (Reply 27): Well I asked because someone I knew turned down EWR at EXJ because of commuting reasons but I guess it is possible. As for me I live close to LAX and I don't have dependents so I'll probably be able to do it, hopefully by that time IAH will be available, who knows. I'm wondering why flights are full to EWR, are there a lot of Continental guys in Socal that are based in EWR? |
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Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 28): Newark, NJ by the airport is the deepest shithole in this land of America. |
Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 31): I am a PHX-EWR commuter |
Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 32): and just curious what equipment are you on @ EWR? |
Quoting CX747 (Reply 33): The military is now looking for "lifers" in all of their pilots |
Quoting CX747 (Reply 33): $18,000 a year does not buy anything more than rent and some groceries! |
Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 34): (International Service Manger, read: babysitter) |
Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 35): The only ISM I know of is Ron W. |
Quoting COEXpilot (Reply 35): If you enter this industry, you gotta stick it or give up. |
Quoting EWRCabincrew (Reply 36): Spoken like an industry insider. Bravo (and all too true)! |
Quoting Memphis (Thread starter): For all of you airline pilots, I have a question: How do you pursue your flying career while at the same time keep the home fires burning? |