My point was we never have perfect information. My opinion was offered based on the available information, not what may or may not be. This is a discussion site where we (I want to say primarily) offer our opinions. So just because you disagree with my opinion doesn't make me a jerk.
And I'm not telling them. I'm telling you. There is a big difference. The way parents choose to raise their children is none of my business.
It seems like I struck a nerve or two, but I'll let it go.
You might want to try it sometime.
Not only do you not have "perfect" information you haven't enough information to judge. That's my point. The nerve you struck was the one that detests self-righteous scolds who think they know more about parenting that the next person.
"The way parents choose to raise their children is none of my business."
Good. Let's leave it that way.
Now, take your own advice and let it go.
"If I don't manage to fly, someone else will. The spirit wants only for there to be flying. As for who happens to do it, in that he has only a passing interest."
- R.M. Rilke